Your inner work will pay off
About this time three years ago I was in a tiny dark ground floor apartment in Lisbon: I hadn’t eaten for a few days, I was dealing with an infection, I was purging a lot of guilt and grief that my breakup had brought to the surface, I hardly left the house, I was...
Self confidence and one bullet that kills it all
I don’t have a lot of interest in knowing what people out there say about me. I still hear things of course. One thing that keeps coming back is that people make a near equivalence between me and self confidence. Like, Sofia = self confidence. It took me a moment to...
We are designed to be fucked by love
In relationships I have at times been avoidant AF. I would withdraw in the face of discomfort, incapable of communicating. I have also been anxious AF. I would demand attention and suffer because I’d never get it through my subtle or direct demands. I also have been...
The Feminine, Trust and Sisterhood
For a long time, I couldn’t trust women. I was even scared of them. They felt so unpredictable, unreliable, unsafe… Then, about ten years ago I gathered my first women’s circle. Women of different ages, different backgrounds, different cultures came together and...
THE AUTHOR
Sofia Sundari is a mystic, tantrika and a writer. She facilitates courses on tantric & taoist sexuality and mystical femininity and helps people all over the world remember the power and innocence of their erotic nature.