AWAKENING
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Your inner work will pay off
About this time three years ago I was in a tiny dark ground floor apartment in Lisbon: I hadn’t eaten for a few days, I was dealing with an infection, I was purging a lot of guilt and grief that my breakup had brought to the surface, I hardly left the house, I was...
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Self confidence and one bullet that kills it all
I don’t have a lot of interest in knowing what people out there say about me. I still hear things of course. One thing that keeps coming back is that people make a near equivalence between me and self confidence. Like, Sofia = self confidence. It took me a moment to...
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Feminine empowerment – what is it about?
The whole topic of feminine empowerment is fascinating, and just like with anything else, if we become too serious about it, we receive a major slap on the face. Let’s look at the 2 polar ends of this topic: 1. Women tend to give away their power by projecting their...
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How to make them want you
There are lots of strategies that you can learn to get the attention of someone you like. There are even so-called “pick up artists” that spend their entire lives mastering these kinds of tricks. You can take classes on how to become the most desirable person ever....
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Opening portals in life | Rituals | Why “manifestation” doesn’t work
A portal is an access point to certain aspects of reality. The whole new age talk about manifestation doesn’t work for most people because they are not ready for what they are trying to manifest. There might be old unaddressed wounds that just won’t let us be where we...
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When sex hurts
People commonly think that sex is all about pleasure, joy, ecstasy and orgasms. But most of us have experienced sex which was painful, sex during which we experienced burning and aching in the genitals and pelvis. Many people have also experienced sex which provoked...
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Before you came
Before you came There were moments when I questioned whether the life I had chosen could accept you next to me, I questioned whether there was enough space for you... I questioned and dismissed everything I’d seen modelled in the world of relationships. I was calling...
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The perfectly fitting partner and the choice to love
In reality you will always find something about your partner that could have been better. Always. Most people keep searching for a better partner. A perfectly fitting partner… Of course we have values and we want someone who ticks the boxes. But that’s an automatic...
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Why you need to learn marketing
Because the way most people handle their work and business totally sucks! So many have an aversion to even hearing the word marketing: “I don’t want to see myself like that”. Well, too bad for you and your potential clients that will never become your clients...
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What to do when you are affected by the opinions of others?
You may feel as if people are trying to bring you down to their view of reality. You may feel that people are trying to make you digestable, comprehensible… This ranges from people who only see you as a sex object, to people who want you to be their good daughter or...
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Tantra, pleasure and truth
Most people completely misunderstand Tantra. Including those who have practiced with authentic carriers of this ancient wisdom. The misconceptions are understandable. As soon as we open the door to sexual energy, we open the door to something incredibly powerful and...
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Why my courses cost so much
(Some of my students and clients have actually told me that they were hesitating to come to study with me because they found my prices too low.) But here’s what I have to say to this. I am charging what I know I have to charge. The price of longer training sessions is...
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The Key to Connection
When we encounter intense emotions or pain we tend to respond by closing. Closing can take various forms: Becoming very loud and overly-expressive, blasting other people with our emotions. Becoming cold and distant. Looking cool, as if nothing is happening, yet...
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Do you want to be a leader?
Think twice. Many people want to become a leader, to serve in the world and guide people back home... but are you ready for the package that comes with it? Here are some of the challenges encountered by leaders: 1. PROJECTIONS Since you are so visible and always at...
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Trust is the greatest power that we have
Real trust is about opening to life. It’s about loving life. It's about jumping without a safety net. Remembering the deep meaning of this life. Even when I feel like I am burning from the inside, I trust. I trust that all is guided by the Great One. I offer my...
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The eternal beloved
For as long as I can remember myself, relationships have always been my "thing". Ever since I was five years old, my Barbies were getting married and having sex; I watched soap opera with my grandmother and my favourite stuff was always about relationships; my first...
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Why you shouldn’t underestimate your power
Some of you may remember that I had the most peculiar and really intense accident happen to me at the very end of last year. The happening was so weird I couldn’t help but analyse it from many different angles and try to make sense out of it. Then, about two months...
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What makes unavailable people so attractive?
Many of us experienced falling in love with a pop star or someone famous when we were younger. Many are mysteriously drawn to those men or women who are married. Sometimes we fall in love with a person who for some specific reasons is not available to be there for us...
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Withdrawal/Neediness – the deadly duo
Some situations seem so complicated, it feels like there is no way out. Let’s say you are madly in love with someone, but they just don’t respond to you the same way... Or - you enjoy spending time with a person, but they demand a lot of attention from you, more than...
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Sometimes (many times) I really don’t agree with you, world
Sometimes (many times) I really don’t agree with you, world. Sometimes (many times) I feel completely isolated, and I wonder if kids at school were right when they said that I must be of another world. Sometimes I feel completely hopeless, I feel we have failed as...
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Love your darkness
Let me tell you something: YOU ARE NOT ALL LOVE AND LIGHT. You have a dark side. Without it you simply would not be a human. At first you may resist accepting your darkness, but once you are able to be with it... Your eyes will hurt because of all the light that pours...
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