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There is a feminine way of leading men

There is a feminine way of leading men

A woman in her masculine energy can say things like: “Sure, we can just be sex buddies, I don’t get so emotionally involved”.   Which in 99,9% of cases is a LIE.   A women’s body is designed in a way that when her Yoni opens to someone, her heart opens too.   Yes, she...

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Do we allow men to be men?

Do we allow men to be men?

Many women behave predominantly from the masculine energy. They are so used to it so they bring this attitude to their intimate relationships too.   They are used to initiating contact, providing direction, offering solutions to problems, controlling emotions,...

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The reason why women don’t get what they want from men

The reason why women don’t get what they want from men

In short: Because you put up with what you don’t want. Why do you do this? Because you are infected, sis. You’ve fallen victim to a global pandemic. A REALLY dangerous one. It is called: disconnection from who you are.   Low self worth is the result of that. Not...

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Woman comes first

Woman comes first

In giving herself to the act of love woman can remember what her soul knows beyond intellect. She meets her bigger Self through the ecstasy of Love.⠀ ⠀ Subconsciously a man knows that in their merging she can transmit to him her feminine wisdom and awaken his heart...

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Yin+Yang = Alchemy

Yin+Yang = Alchemy

Next time you are with your beloved and things are getting hot 🔥 and steamy 💦 instead of jumping right into the fire, try opening to the electrical tingling sensation of vibrant life energy.⠀ ⠀ This vibrancy can be extracted from erotic energy and...

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Awakening through death

Awakening through death

August, 23 2008. ⠀ I was partying all night, at sunrise I made it home, not feeling proud of myself. I took a shower and went to bed. At around midday I wake up from a phone call. It’s the flatmate of my best friend, he never calls me. ⠀ ⠀ I pick up: “Hey Sofia,...

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Time to remember

Time to remember

We are in global pain, as humanity.⠀ ⠀ This pain is not new, but finally everyone is becoming aware of it.⠀ ⠀ Pain in itself is not bad. Pain doesn’t equal suffering.⠀ ⠀ Pain is an invitation to focus on what needs to be done.⠀ ⠀ Childbirth is accompanied by a lot of...

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Beloved Man

Beloved Man

I’ve been deeply moved each time you’ve showed up in front of me revealing your naked heart. ⠀ ⠀ I’ve felt honoured each time you’ve opened and trusted me to be a safe space to put your weapons down.⠀ ⠀ I am sorry for all the times I could not truly see and appreciate...

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It is not about you

It is not about you

I’ll share a win with you. I once got very upset about something my lover at that time did. It was so painful I was burning on the inside. I had so many thoughts in my mind: “how could he do this! I want to leave! I want him to leave! I don’t want to know him! All...

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Death and love

Death and love

Yet another flight, however for a moment I thought it was going to be the last one. I witnessed myself breathing deeper and thinking: “If this is it... I thank you life. I have loved. I am ready to go.” And in case I go, I ask my loved ones to not make a big deal out...

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Your “no” protects you from being pulled on energetically

Your “no” protects you from being pulled on energetically

To those tender people who have a hard time saying “no” .... I get it. I get that you really love harmony. I get that you hate upsetting people. I get that you have had experiences in the past that taught you that each time you don’t do what is asked/expected from...

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I care about you enough to express how I feel

I care about you enough to express how I feel

I didn’t grow up having permission to express how I felt or knowing how to express myself at all. All I knew was that when mum got upset she would yell at me. So, very early on I started feeling that emotions were unsafe. Emotional intelligence is not something we are...

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Why are you behaving that way?

Why are you behaving that way?

Something major shifted in my relational dynamics when I stopped assuming that when I was offended by something the other person did, they were supposed to know better and not misbehave. Instead I learnt to become curious: why are they behaving that way? Maybe they...

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A million dollar secret

A million dollar secret

A million-dollar secret: this will likely change your intimate relationships (and life). When your partner is retreating/ running to the cave/ becoming emotionally distant/ leaning away, the natural response is to lean towards them. It can even be explained through...

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We are fighting life all the time

We are fighting life all the time

We are trying to create pleasant experiences and repel the unpleasant. When we have unpleasant experiences, we tend to think that something has gone wrong. Others did me wrong. I did wrong to myself. This becomes a game. And over time you learn the drill quite well,...

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Ageing is a myth

Ageing is a myth

When I was 13 people were asking me which year of Uni I was in. Now sometimes people think I’m 10 years younger than what I really am. Other times - 10 years older. When I look at my photos taken during times when I felt really low - I look much older. When I’m in my...

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Beloved Woman

Beloved Woman

Beloved Woman, Do you know how invincible you are when you dare to show a little bit of your heart? Through your courageous loving eyes, you let the light of Spirit shine. Through your kind touch you let the Great Mother touch his heart. When you free yourself from...

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Yet another face of God

Yet another face of God

You have appeared in my life in so many forms. You’ve taken on so many faces.⠀ ⠀ Sometimes it feels as if you are hiding from me. I’m looking everywhere for you but I cannot see you.⠀ ⠀ Other times you reveal yourself by blasting me with light that shines through...

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Showing up for love

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQg1jQzkCm8   When priestesses come together they create a temple. Ultimately the whole world is our temple; it is our sacred space, our own big body. We also create a temple out of the physical location where we practice our holy...

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“What if it was all my fault?..”

“What if it was all my fault?..”

If you are anything like me and you are used to taking responsibility for EVERYTHING, you are a bit of a perfectionist and have VERY high standards.... then it’s likely that you have a tendency to see yourself as being responsible for everything that’s happening in...

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Love is here

Love is here

Love is here. ⠀ She came to destroy you. So she does that, ruthlessly. You’re lost to your sense of identity. You are ⠀ crushed and crumbled. ⠀ ⠀ It is love. ⠀ ⠀ Just when you thought she was done with you, she comes and pours nectar all over your wounds, she ⠀ wraps...

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