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What to do when you are affected by the opinions of others?

You may feel as if people are trying to bring you down to their view of reality. You may feel that people are trying to make you digestable, comprehensible… This ranges from people who only see you as a sex object, to people who want you to be their good daughter or good partner, to people who think they want to be your friend and for you to be like them. They will tug on you where you are wounded and tell you this is where your place is. They will stay there sniffing your wounds from all...

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Miscarriage is not what you think it is

Many people have experienced miscarriage. For women this process is usually associated with a sense of grief, failure and even guilt. Also, the question: why me!? For men it can also be very emotional, they may be feeling like they don’t deserve to be a father or...

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These are potent times

These are potent times. We are here co-creating a new world together. We have no time to waste in blame, competition, projections and other manifestations of victimhood. There are no models from the past. There is only the Spirit that is so accessible to us right now....

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Surrendering the romantic dream

I am walking along the beach, and a tall dark-haired man is walking towards me. He approaches me and stares straight into my eyes with a combination of tenderness and intensity. As hours (or is it minutes) pass by, I become more and more captivated by his presence and...

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How Tantra changed my life

Today many people know me as an international Tantra teacher, a woman who initiates incredibly important yet at times very uncomfortable conversations about sexuality, who holds training sessions in some of the most stunning locations in the world, someone who is...

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As if I’ve ever been normal

I actually tried really hard to be “ok”. I tried to make people feel good in my presence. To fit in with the cool kids at my university. To fit into the model of what a beautiful and desirable woman should be. I even researched on the internet how to become a top...

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What does it take to love a human?

On numerous occasions I’ve told people who I barely knew that I loved them. In these instances I have always been speaking to their Souls. It is easy to love the Soul when you can feel it. I love staring at the Soul, celebrating the Soul, adoring the Soul. Sometimes a...

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I love you more than anything and I am letting you go

As soon as I see you, My heart bursts And I am letting you go As soon as you come close I open myself to you I invite you to penetrate me to my core And I am letting you go As soon as you open your arms to me I feel your desire responding to my desire I feel my desire...

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What we really need is to wake the fuck up

These days many people are busy working out their boundaries, practicing conscious celibacy, healing parts that used to be abandoned… All this is great. And will give you great insights. But in reality whatever you believe in will work for you. If you think that...

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Ejaculation mastery: To cum or not to cum?

Ejaculation control is an ancient Taoist and tantric practice, which is referred to preservation of the seed and the vital force, what is known as the chi or prana.  When you have control over your ejaculation you have...

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I Don’t Believe In Monogamy

I don’t believe in monogamy. I don’t believe in polyamory either. I have tasted both and I have to say: neither of these works. It doesn’t work to define the undefinable. It doesn’t work to confine ourselves and our loved ones to a specific way of moving in the world....

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The Little Girl – The Woman – The Priestess

Every woman has these three aspects within her. They are all equally important. And they all need to be accepted and loved.   The Little Girl is that very young part of you. She is usually quite wounded, as she has absorbed everything like a sponge, she doesn’t have...

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Ending my seduction games

A few months ago I started something that I call a Relationships Fast. It’s been a very insightful time. It is incredible to zoom in specifically on seduction. So much of our lives revolves around seduction. And I want to share four of my findings with you because I...

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Honoring the warrior

Women have a very sacred place within them. It’s called the womb. Simply physiologically speaking, it is a pretty incredible place. Think about it: a woman can receive a seed and convert it into a human. A woman can receive a soul and convert it into a human. That’s...

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How can you introduce your partner to tantra?

I know how common it is in couples: one partner gets very excited about something and wants to bring something fresh into the relationship, and the other partner is… well, resisting. And if you have ever felt into Tantra, if you have become intrigued by it, if you...

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Love.

She shows up when you least expect her, She doesn’t bother knocking on the door, She walks in with her boots on, She pours herself a glass of your best wine, She sits in your favorite armchair, And she lights a cigarette in your non-smoking house. She couldn't care...

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VLOG: How can we *Show Up* in a relationship?

In my heart of hearts I know that we all want to live fully. We all want to offer ourselves to life fully. We all want to see each other stepping into our full potential. Right? No one consciously chooses to play small and...

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