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Your inner work will pay off

About this time three years ago I was in a tiny dark ground floor apartment in Lisbon: I hadn’t eaten for a few days, I was dealing with an infection, I was purging a lot of guilt and grief that my breakup had brought to the surface, I hardly left the house, I was writing (my form of psychotherapy), listening to music and crying, a lot. My life was exploding. Once again. I had jumped off a cliff. I had no idea where or if I was going to land. I was hurting. I was scared. Everything from the...

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Do you want to be a leader?

Think twice. Many people want to become a leader, to serve in the world and guide people back home... but are you ready for the package that comes with it? Here are some of the challenges encountered by leaders: 1. PROJECTIONS Since you are so visible and always at...

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To the masculine

I want to ask you for forgiveness. I am sorry for all the times when I could not see you... I am sorry for all the times when I was too blind to be able to receive your love... I am sorry for all the times when I tried to change you, when I tried to make you...

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Money

This is such an edgy subject for many people. Some feel completely lost and have no idea how to make money. Others are trying all sorts of manifestation practices, that sometimes work and sometimes don’t. Some people work really hard with no rest, and don’t even have...

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How to become a better lover?

Many people want to become better lovers. I remember how in my late teens I was googling things like: “how to have orgasms during sex”, and “how to give the best blowjob”. I thought these were the keys to being an amazing lover. What I came to realise is that the...

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Trust is the greatest power that we have

Real trust is about opening to life. It’s about loving life. It's about jumping without a safety net. Remembering the deep meaning of this life. Even when I feel like I am burning from the inside, I trust.  I trust that all is guided by the Great One. I offer my...

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The eternal beloved

For as long as I can remember myself, relationships have always been my "thing". Ever since I was five years old, my Barbies were getting married and having sex; I watched soap opera with my grandmother and my favourite stuff was always about relationships; my first...

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Why you shouldn’t underestimate your power

Some of you may remember that I had the most peculiar and really intense accident happen to me at the very end of last year. The happening was so weird I couldn’t help but analyse it from many different angles and try to make sense out of it. Then, about two months...

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What makes unavailable people so attractive?

Many of us experienced falling in love with a pop star or someone famous when we were younger. Many are mysteriously drawn to those men or women who are married. Sometimes we fall in love with a person who for some specific reasons is not available to be there for us...

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11 steps to overcome male sexual challenges

Many men have experienced one of these symptoms or all of them: Challenges with getting or sustaining an erection, Experiencing an erection only when you are in the active role, Inability to ejaculate, Premature ejaculation. If any of these cases apply to you, it...

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Withdrawal/Neediness – the deadly duo

Some situations seem so complicated, it feels like there is no way out. Let’s say you are madly in love with someone, but they just don’t respond to you the same way... Or - you enjoy spending time with a person, but they demand a lot of attention from you, more than...

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Sometimes (many times) I really don’t agree with you, world

Sometimes (many times) I really don’t agree with you, world. Sometimes (many times) I feel completely isolated, and I wonder if kids at school were right when they said that I must be of another world. Sometimes I feel completely hopeless, I feel we have failed as...

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Love your darkness

Let me tell you something: YOU ARE NOT ALL LOVE AND LIGHT. You have a dark side. Without it you simply would not be a human. At first you may resist accepting your darkness, but once you are able to be with it... Your eyes will hurt because of all the light that pours...

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Alone / Together

ALONE / TOGETHER I love my aloneness. I love switching off my phone and lying down on the grass in the woods. This is the time for my .being. and nothing else. ALONE / TOGETHER It’s you... You are under my skin, I feel you in my pulse, in my bloodstream, in my bones....

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Emotions and sexuality

What makes me uncomfortable is to be around people who are uncomfortable with Life. What frustrates me more that anything is how people repress Life. How people feel ill at ease with emotions. How people feel ill at ease with sexuality. As soon as someone experiences...

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How to deal with your partner’s ex

At some point you may find that everyone in your circles has dated everyone else and there seems to be no escape from this loop. Generally, people tend to complain about this, as if there was something wrong with it. I don’t see it this way. I think that in all our...

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What to do when people are “stealing” your content?

To be honest, I see pieces of text I wrote flying all over the internet without any credit whatsoever. As well as my photos. As well as my ideas and course titles. Also, people who come to your workshops will be using practices they learnt from you and then...

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Miscarriage is not what you think it is

Many people have experienced miscarriage. For women this process is usually associated with a sense of grief, failure and even guilt. Also, the question: why me!? For men it can also be very emotional, they may be feeling like they don’t deserve to be a father or...

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These are potent times

These are potent times. We are here co-creating a new world together. We have no time to waste in blame, competition, projections and other manifestations of victimhood. There are no models from the past. There is only the Spirit that is so accessible to us right now....

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Surrendering the romantic dream

I am walking along the beach, and a tall dark-haired man is walking towards me. He approaches me and stares straight into my eyes with a combination of tenderness and intensity. As hours (or is it minutes) pass by, I become more and more captivated by his presence and...

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How Tantra changed my life

Today many people know me as an international Tantra teacher, a woman who initiates incredibly important yet at times very uncomfortable conversations about sexuality, who holds training sessions in some of the most stunning locations in the world, someone who is...

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