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Inviting your partner into their heart

Inviting your partner into their heart

Any woman who chooses to be in a predominantly feminine energy mode in a relationship (and life) has an incredible superpower.⠀ ⠀ She can create a safe space for her partner to open his heart. ⠀ ⠀ *Note: I am referring to heterosexual relationships here (and in much...

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It is not about you

It is not about you

I’ll share a win with you. I once got very upset about something my lover at that time did. It was so painful I was burning on the inside. I had so many thoughts in my mind: “how could he do this! I want to leave! I want him to leave! I don’t want to know him! All...

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Death and love

Death and love

Yet another flight, however for a moment I thought it was going to be the last one. I witnessed myself breathing deeper and thinking: “If this is it... I thank you life. I have loved. I am ready to go.” And in case I go, I ask my loved ones to not make a big deal out...

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I care about you enough to express how I feel

I care about you enough to express how I feel

I didn’t grow up having permission to express how I felt or knowing how to express myself at all. All I knew was that when mum got upset she would yell at me. So, very early on I started feeling that emotions were unsafe. Emotional intelligence is not something we are...

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Why are you behaving that way?

Why are you behaving that way?

Something major shifted in my relational dynamics when I stopped assuming that when I was offended by something the other person did, they were supposed to know better and not misbehave. Instead I learnt to become curious: why are they behaving that way? Maybe they...

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A million dollar secret

A million dollar secret

A million-dollar secret: this will likely change your intimate relationships (and life). When your partner is retreating/ running to the cave/ becoming emotionally distant/ leaning away, the natural response is to lean towards them. It can even be explained through...

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Love is here

Love is here

Love is here. ⠀ She came to destroy you. So she does that, ruthlessly. You’re lost to your sense of identity. You are ⠀ crushed and crumbled. ⠀ ⠀ It is love. ⠀ ⠀ Just when you thought she was done with you, she comes and pours nectar all over your wounds, she ⠀ wraps...

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Hot coals

Hot coals

Some people in your life are going to be like hot coals. They will burn the edges of your wings. They will ⠀ leave marks on your feet. They will leave a few holes in your heart. ⠀ ⠀ It will take some time to come back to your fullness after such encounters. It will...

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The nice

The nice

I used to do everything I could to avoid conflict. I valued external harmony so much, so often it would come at expense of my internal harmony and integrity. It never felt right, I felt tortured on the inside. But I still was doing everything I could to put others...

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I am more me when I’m with you

I am more me when I’m with you

I’ve been reflecting on how different I am while in a relationship vs while single. I am a split definition in Human Design, and as much as I dislike to categorise people using astrology and other systems, understanding this split thing helped me understand my...

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Inner man and his maturity (or lack of thereof)

Inner man and his maturity (or lack of thereof)

Since I posted about all my kick ass projects, I have received some feedback. Many people expressed admiration. And a few real honest ones expressed... intimidation. A man friend said: “I would never come close to someone like you. You are too challenging. Because my...

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Why relationships don’t flow

Why relationships don’t flow

I haven’t had many significant intimate relationships with women, and in those that I had I’ve always played the alpha role. I’ve been the more experienced one, and naturally that would put me more into my masculine energy. I would make decisions, offer direction to...

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How to attract a partner

How to attract a partner

If only the “spiritual” women had a clue of how deeply manipulation is engrained in their system, they’d understand why no “spiritual” man sticks around. You can actually use certain techniques to attract a partner. But the problem is unless you are really clear...

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Find the heat in your belly

Find the heat in your belly

Most people have a tendency to hold on. To what? To everything! To the unresolved issues with other people, to the past, to they pain and wounds, to dreams and expectations, to an unhealthy self image, to an idea of their own unworthiness... I think this happens...

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“You make me happy”

“You make me happy”

“You make me happy” - some of the most dangerous words anyone can say. When you see someone you love and your whole being lights up.... your face softens automatically and you feel so happy to have their arms around you. All you want is this, and more of this... Then,...

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Why you must thrive

Why you must thrive

Many people have a tendency to become really affected by the behaviour of their partners. For simplicity it’s called co-dependency. So here’s a download for everyone who’s interested in shifting this old unnecessary pattern: Your life has to be so awesome and you need...

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Who is in your field?

Who is in your field?

When I start connecting intimately with someone I like to know who they were connecting with before me. If I have met any of those people I try to reach out to them. I am well aware that it’s not something that’s common in our society. Quite the opposite tends to...

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What is the Tantra thing about?

What is the Tantra thing about?

Most people completely misunderstand Tantra. The misconceptions are understandable. As soon as we open the door to sexual energy, we open the door to something incredibly powerful and incredibly intense. This intensity makes it very hard to stay on the tiger. It’s...

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Are you trapped in karmic relationships?

Are you trapped in karmic relationships?

Who doesn’t love the natural high we get when we fall in love…? However here is something you need to know: the really intense relationships, with passionate feelings and regular major pushes and pulls and ups and downs usually have a karmic nature. What is karma? The...

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Heart-gasm

Heart-gasm

My arms, my whole chest is tingling. The amount of love I feel for you is bursting from every pore, from the very core of me, in the very core of my heart I feel you. In the very core of your heart I feel me. The waves of orgasmic pleasure emerge from the Center of my...

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Fear of Going Deeper

Fear of Going Deeper

He walked in and sat next to me. “I am scared,” - he said. “I really want a deep relationship, but I’m so scared. Once we start going deeper, I pull away and reject the woman, all because I’m so fucking scared that I will open my heart to her and then she will leave...

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