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The Key to Connection

  When we encounter intense emotions or pain we tend to respond by closing.   Closing can take various forms:   Becoming very loud and overly-expressive, blasting other people with our emotions. Becoming cold and distant. Looking cool, as if nothing is happening, yet...

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Forever romantic

I have a confession to make. I don’t think I can ever stop being a romantic. I fall in love so hard. I’ve actually hurt myself because of that. In the past I used to derail completely for a phase, and made some awkward choices. At times I’ve questioned my sanity and...

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To the masculine

I want to ask you for forgiveness. I am sorry for all the times when I could not see you... I am sorry for all the times when I was too blind to be able to receive your love... I am sorry for all the times when I tried to change you, when I tried to make you...

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How to become a better lover?

Many people want to become better lovers. I remember how in my late teens I was googling things like: “how to have orgasms during sex”, and “how to give the best blowjob”. I thought these were the keys to being an amazing lover. What I came to realise is that the...

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The eternal beloved

For as long as I can remember myself, relationships have always been my "thing". Ever since I was five years old, my Barbies were getting married and having sex; I watched soap opera with my grandmother and my favourite stuff was always about relationships; my first...

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What makes unavailable people so attractive?

Many of us experienced falling in love with a pop star or someone famous when we were younger. Many are mysteriously drawn to those men or women who are married. Sometimes we fall in love with a person who for some specific reasons is not available to be there for us...

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Withdrawal/Neediness – the deadly duo

Some situations seem so complicated, it feels like there is no way out. Let’s say you are madly in love with someone, but they just don’t respond to you the same way... Or - you enjoy spending time with a person, but they demand a lot of attention from you, more than...

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Alone / Together

ALONE / TOGETHER I love my aloneness. I love switching off my phone and lying down on the grass in the woods. This is the time for my .being. and nothing else. ALONE / TOGETHER It’s you... You are under my skin, I feel you in my pulse, in my bloodstream, in my bones....

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How to deal with your partner’s ex

At some point you may find that everyone in your circles has dated everyone else and there seems to be no escape from this loop. Generally, people tend to complain about this, as if there was something wrong with it. I don’t see it this way. I think that in all our...

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Miscarriage is not what you think it is

Many people have experienced miscarriage. For women this process is usually associated with a sense of grief, failure and even guilt. Also, the question: why me!? For men it can also be very emotional, they may be feeling like they don’t deserve to be a father or...

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Surrendering the romantic dream

I am walking along the beach, and a tall dark-haired man is walking towards me. He approaches me and stares straight into my eyes with a combination of tenderness and intensity. As hours (or is it minutes) pass by, I become more and more captivated by his presence and...

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What does it take to love a human?

On numerous occasions I’ve told people who I barely knew that I loved them. In these instances I have always been speaking to their Souls. It is easy to love the Soul when you can feel it. I love staring at the Soul, celebrating the Soul, adoring the Soul. Sometimes a...

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I love you more than anything and I am letting you go

As soon as I see you, My heart bursts And I am letting you go As soon as you come close I open myself to you I invite you to penetrate me to my core And I am letting you go As soon as you open your arms to me I feel your desire responding to my desire I feel my desire...

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Ejaculation mastery: To cum or not to cum?

Ejaculation control is an ancient Taoist and tantric practice, which is referred to preservation of the seed and the vital force, what is known as the chi or prana.  When you have control over your ejaculation you have...

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I Don’t Believe In Monogamy

I don’t believe in monogamy. I don’t believe in polyamory either. I have tasted both and I have to say: neither of these works. It doesn’t work to define the undefinable. It doesn’t work to confine ourselves and our loved ones to a specific way of moving in the world....

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Ending my seduction games

A few months ago I started something that I call a Relationships Fast. It’s been a very insightful time. It is incredible to zoom in specifically on seduction. So much of our lives revolves around seduction. And I want to share four of my findings with you because I...

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Honoring the warrior

Women have a very sacred place within them. It’s called the womb. Simply physiologically speaking, it is a pretty incredible place. Think about it: a woman can receive a seed and convert it into a human. A woman can receive a soul and convert it into a human. That’s...

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