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There is a feminine way of leading men

There is a feminine way of leading men

A woman in her masculine energy can say things like: “Sure, we can just be sex buddies, I don’t get so emotionally involved”.   Which in 99,9% of cases is a LIE.   A women’s body is designed in a way that when her Yoni opens to someone, her heart opens too.   Yes, she...

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Do we allow men to be men?

Do we allow men to be men?

Many women behave predominantly from the masculine energy. They are so used to it so they bring this attitude to their intimate relationships too.   They are used to initiating contact, providing direction, offering solutions to problems, controlling emotions,...

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The reason why women don’t get what they want from men

The reason why women don’t get what they want from men

In short: Because you put up with what you don’t want. Why do you do this? Because you are infected, sis. You’ve fallen victim to a global pandemic. A REALLY dangerous one. It is called: disconnection from who you are.   Low self worth is the result of that. Not...

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Do you LOVE your partner’s genitals?

Do you LOVE your partner’s genitals?

If you don’t, it means you don’t fully love either your partner OR yourself. Our genitals are where our body begins. Our genitals are what determines our sexual essence. Our human essence. Our genitals need to be loved and acknowledged for what they are. To me cock is...

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To the Force that Saved my Life

To the Force that Saved my Life

Sacred union with a beloved is only possible from a space of freedom. ⠀ ⠀ True freedom is an internal quality. Freedom is not possible without courage. For some people this courage will look like madness. For the happy few who’ve tasted this freedom… there is simply...

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Yin+Yang = Alchemy

Yin+Yang = Alchemy

Next time you are with your beloved and things are getting hot 🔥 and steamy 💦 instead of jumping right into the fire, try opening to the electrical tingling sensation of vibrant life energy.⠀ ⠀ This vibrancy can be extracted from erotic energy and...

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Prayer

Prayer

In the sparkly embrace of our souls⠀ Since our very first earthly meeting⠀ We dance⠀ ⠀ It is a fine dance,⠀ A dance of a delectable sensual embrace,⠀ A dance of simplicity and joy of recognition.⠀ ⠀ At times, it makes us spin through galaxies, ⠀ so cosmic...⠀ At...

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Love in the times of corona

Love in the times of corona

Maybe you are happy to be together with your intimate partner now and are taking time to nourish your bubble and bathe in its sweetness. ⠀ ⠀ Maybe you feel total absence of sex drive. Maybe you feel guilty or ashamed because of it.⠀ ⠀ Maybe you don’t have a partner...

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Inviting your partner into their heart

Inviting your partner into their heart

Any woman who chooses to be in a predominantly feminine energy mode in a relationship (and life) has an incredible superpower.⠀ ⠀ She can create a safe space for her partner to open his heart. ⠀ ⠀ *Note: I am referring to heterosexual relationships here (and in much...

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It is not about you

It is not about you

I’ll share a win with you. I once got very upset about something my lover at that time did. It was so painful I was burning on the inside. I had so many thoughts in my mind: “how could he do this! I want to leave! I want him to leave! I don’t want to know him! All...

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Death and love

Death and love

Yet another flight, however for a moment I thought it was going to be the last one. I witnessed myself breathing deeper and thinking: “If this is it... I thank you life. I have loved. I am ready to go.” And in case I go, I ask my loved ones to not make a big deal out...

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I care about you enough to express how I feel

I care about you enough to express how I feel

I didn’t grow up having permission to express how I felt or knowing how to express myself at all. All I knew was that when mum got upset she would yell at me. So, very early on I started feeling that emotions were unsafe. Emotional intelligence is not something we are...

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Why are you behaving that way?

Why are you behaving that way?

Something major shifted in my relational dynamics when I stopped assuming that when I was offended by something the other person did, they were supposed to know better and not misbehave. Instead I learnt to become curious: why are they behaving that way? Maybe they...

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A million dollar secret

A million dollar secret

A million-dollar secret: this will likely change your intimate relationships (and life). When your partner is retreating/ running to the cave/ becoming emotionally distant/ leaning away, the natural response is to lean towards them. It can even be explained through...

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Love is here

Love is here

Love is here. ⠀ She came to destroy you. So she does that, ruthlessly. You’re lost to your sense of identity. You are ⠀ crushed and crumbled. ⠀ ⠀ It is love. ⠀ ⠀ Just when you thought she was done with you, she comes and pours nectar all over your wounds, she ⠀ wraps...

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Hot coals

Hot coals

Some people in your life are going to be like hot coals. They will burn the edges of your wings. They will ⠀ leave marks on your feet. They will leave a few holes in your heart. ⠀ ⠀ It will take some time to come back to your fullness after such encounters. It will...

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The nice

The nice

I used to do everything I could to avoid conflict. I valued external harmony so much, so often it would come at expense of my internal harmony and integrity. It never felt right, I felt tortured on the inside. But I still was doing everything I could to put others...

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I am more me when I’m with you

I am more me when I’m with you

I’ve been reflecting on how different I am while in a relationship vs while single. I am a split definition in Human Design, and as much as I dislike to categorise people using astrology and other systems, understanding this split thing helped me understand my...

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Inner man and his maturity (or lack of thereof)

Inner man and his maturity (or lack of thereof)

Since I posted about all my kick ass projects, I have received some feedback. Many people expressed admiration. And a few real honest ones expressed... intimidation. A man friend said: “I would never come close to someone like you. You are too challenging. Because my...

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Why relationships don’t flow

Why relationships don’t flow

I haven’t had many significant intimate relationships with women, and in those that I had I’ve always played the alpha role. I’ve been the more experienced one, and naturally that would put me more into my masculine energy. I would make decisions, offer direction to...

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How to attract a partner

How to attract a partner

If only the “spiritual” women had a clue of how deeply manipulation is engrained in their system, they’d understand why no “spiritual” man sticks around. You can actually use certain techniques to attract a partner. But the problem is unless you are really clear...

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