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Sweet Surrender

A lover told me once: "there are many things I admire about you, but what turns me on the most is your confidence and trust. This is just so fucking sexy”. Trust can take many shapes. It can look like self confidence, a certain way of speaking, moving and holding...

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For the Love of Men

In their hearts all men want nothing more than to see women happy. Do you find it surprising? Observe the men around you. Observe that when you need something and if you ask them: “Can you help me?” They will answer: “Yes, how?”. Or: “Can you do something for me?” The...

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Lover as a Healer, Lover as a Liberator

To me there are not many things in life that are as empowering as  a lover who fully embraces my sexual expression. It takes a lover who is sexually free him/herself. Who has dealt with the social conditioning and shame around their own sexuality. Growing up as women...

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Woman as an Initiatress

Most of us are playing games. Most don’t see the games they play. These games become habits deeply ingrained in the psyche. But what if we dare not to follow? What if we dare to make authentic choices moment by moment and really follow our values? Can we actually...

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How To Set Up Your Own Intimacy Retreat

I have just emerged out of a month long tantric intimacy and sexuality retreat that I did with a lover. We actually didn’t plan it to be such an intensive immersion, we just agreed to meet and hang out for a few weeks together in Ibiza. But then we found ourselves in...

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To Shiva

I am a devotee of Shiva as much as I am the devotee of Shakti. I worship the divine masculine. Shiva is the name of the divine masculine. There have been a few incredibly special men in my life who have played a massive role in my transformation and awakening....

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How to own your pleasure

There is a belief among women that our partner is the one who is in charge of our pleasure, who is supposed to give us orgasms, who will awaken us sensually. Gosh, that's a lotta pressure! Yes, your partner can open you up, but mostly to the extent that you are...

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How to serve your man best

No one wants to be lonely, unfulfilled, empty and sad. We want to find love. So we keep working to get our relationships right. The interest in all things relationships is very high. My relationship articles are some of the most popular ones (besides the jade egg...

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Dirty talk & Deep Intimacy

What is the best part about sex? Thrills? Orgasms? Surrender to love? Dirty talk? The possibility of expressing the naughtiest parts of us?... Well, it’s all great, but the greatest thing is intimacy. Pure, deep intimacy. Intimacy is that feeling of being close to...

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Keys To A Happy Relationship

A loving and deep long-term relationship is priceless. It has a huge potential to transform us, make us better, stronger and fulfilled on a deep level. But all this doesn’t come by default. Once you have a beautiful partner it’s just the beginning. After that it’s...

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Femininity in a Relationship

M any women want to have a relationship that brings them joy and makes them feel complete. Often we have mental ideas about the person we want to see next to us, but what we really want is someone to match us, who will make us feel held and will help us grow. It is a...

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Relationships and Individuality

Have you ever wondered how to maintain a healthy relationship for years and years that helps you both grow, and at the same time keep your individuality? In a relationship we want to fulfill our need for feelings of togetherness, reliability, security and safety, and...

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