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The Truth About My Break Up

I wrote these two notes in December 2015 right after our break up, but didn’t dare to post then. Now seems to be the right time. "I have arrived in Lisbon and moved into a tiny little flat in the center. I don’t feel like going out today, so I am sitting here quietly...

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What Is Sex?

What is sex? A friction in the genitals? Some kissing, a bit of play, touch and rush to a finish line? Or the most incredible thing two human beings can experience as their souls merge? In sex I open up to a degree I can never open in any other circumstance. I shed my...

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Shameless Love For Cock

In India, in the beautiful city of Rishikesh there is a temple dedicated to Shiva. The temple is but a small room with a high ceiling and all there is inside is a huge three meter high statue made of black marble. It is a statue of a huge and mighty cock. Shiva is the...

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Sex: To Pound Or Not To Pound?

  The potential of conscious sex is glorious. Conscious sex can be our means to opening to God. Tantric sex can expand us like nothing else. Yet there is a belief that many people share that good sex equals hard sex, and that a woman needs to be taken really hard so...

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Let’s get laid. Shall we?

Sometimes we meet those special people that attract us, that make us curious. Being in their presence makes us feel something special, something unlike the ordinary, some people just seem to come into our lives with magic. And most often...

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I Give Life To Love

You entered my life without any consideration about my plans, my excitement about single life and superficial connections. You entered with a full yes, full commitment to stay through whatever comes. Who am I in front of that commitment? How does it make me feel to be...

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What Do Women Want?

Women… they will feed you with their “I don’t know” and “maybe”... Women… will confuse you with their changing nature... Women… will make you feel like you are losing your ground... They will test you, drive you nuts, encourage you, discourage you, blow you open, shut...

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No Man Can Handle You? Here’s Why.

Do you ever feel as if no man can handle you? It is something that I hear a lot from women I work with. I used to feel that way about myself too. Sometimes as women we feel so emotional, so full of desire, so intense, so powerful… And when we share it, or give a...

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The Number One Secret to Being Irresistible

That endless thirst to be desirable, to  be attractive… Sexuality is the main driving force on this planet. Try to argue with that: almost everything we do in life is about being attractive. People buy expensive clothes, cars, get tanned, do sports, perform plastic...

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Sweet Surrender

A lover told me once: "there are many things I admire about you, but what turns me on the most is your confidence and trust. This is just so fucking sexy”. Trust can take many shapes. It can look like self confidence, a certain way of speaking, moving and holding...

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For the Love of Men

In their hearts all men want nothing more than to see women happy. Do you find it surprising? Observe the men around you. Observe that when you need something and if you ask them: “Can you help me?” They will answer: “Yes, how?”. Or: “Can you do something for me?” The...

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Lover as a Healer, Lover as a Liberator

To me there are not many things in life that are as empowering as  a lover who fully embraces my sexual expression. It takes a lover who is sexually free him/herself. Who has dealt with the social conditioning and shame around their own sexuality. Growing up as women...

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Woman as an Initiatress

Most of us are playing games. Most don’t see the games they play. These games become habits deeply ingrained in the psyche. But what if we dare not to follow? What if we dare to make authentic choices moment by moment and really follow our values? Can we actually...

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How To Set Up Your Own Intimacy Retreat

I have just emerged out of a month long tantric intimacy and sexuality retreat that I did with a lover. We actually didn’t plan it to be such an intensive immersion, we just agreed to meet and hang out for a few weeks together in Ibiza. But then we found ourselves in...

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To Shiva

I am a devotee of Shiva as much as I am the devotee of Shakti. I worship the divine masculine. Shiva is the name of the divine masculine. There have been a few incredibly special men in my life who have played a massive role in my transformation and awakening....

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How to own your pleasure

There is a belief among women that our partner is the one who is in charge of our pleasure, who is supposed to give us orgasms, who will awaken us sensually. Gosh, that's a lotta pressure! Yes, your partner can open you up, but mostly to the extent that you are...

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How to serve your man best

No one wants to be lonely, unfulfilled, empty and sad. We want to find love. So we keep working to get our relationships right. The interest in all things relationships is very high. My relationship articles are some of the most popular ones (besides the jade egg...

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Dirty talk & Deep Intimacy

What is the best part about sex? Thrills? Orgasms? Surrender to love? Dirty talk? The possibility of expressing the naughtiest parts of us?... Well, it’s all great, but the greatest thing is intimacy. Pure, deep intimacy. Intimacy is that feeling of being close to...

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Keys To A Happy Relationship

A loving and deep long-term relationship is priceless. It has a huge potential to transform us, make us better, stronger and fulfilled on a deep level. But all this doesn’t come by default. Once you have a beautiful partner it’s just the beginning. After that it’s...

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Femininity in a Relationship

M any women want to have a relationship that brings them joy and makes them feel complete. Often we have mental ideas about the person we want to see next to us, but what we really want is someone to match us, who will make us feel held and will help us grow. It is a...

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Relationships and Individuality

Have you ever wondered how to maintain a healthy relationship for years and years that helps you both grow, and at the same time keep your individuality? In a relationship we want to fulfill our need for feelings of togetherness, reliability, security and safety, and...

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