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Your inner work will pay off

About this time three years ago I was in a tiny dark ground floor apartment in Lisbon: I hadn’t eaten for a few days, I was dealing with an infection, I was purging a lot of guilt and grief that my breakup had brought to the surface, I hardly left the house, I was...

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Feminine empowerment – what is it about?

The whole topic of feminine empowerment is fascinating, and just like with anything else, if we become too serious about it, we receive a major slap on the face. Let’s look at the 2 polar ends of this topic: 1. Women tend to give away their power by projecting their...

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Relaxed arousal

People tend to think that in order to feel pleasure we must create sensation through stimulation. Stimulation may vary: from playing with feathers to very rough handling of the genitals, watching porn and fantasising. I don’t recommend watching porn and using intense...

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How to make them want you

There are lots of strategies that you can learn to get the attention of someone you like. There are even so-called “pick up artists” that spend their entire lives mastering these kinds of tricks. You can take classes on how to become the most desirable person ever....

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When sex hurts

People commonly think that sex is all about pleasure, joy, ecstasy and orgasms. But most of us have experienced sex which was painful, sex during which we experienced burning and aching in the genitals and pelvis. Many people have also experienced sex which provoked...

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Are you scaring away your beloved?

I receive many emails from people (mostly women) asking how to attract a beloved. Maybe there is someone in your life that you want a deeper connection with. Or maybe you haven’t met this person yet, but you want to welcome him/her into your life. Some women end up...

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Sexploration

I find that it is quite important to have at least one phase in your life when you engage in lots of sexual experiments, either with lots of sexual partners or with one partner who is willing to really go for it with you. It’s a time to let yourself be naughty,...

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Are you pleasure dependent on a partner?

“Sexuality? It’s not for me, I’m single,” - a phrase I’ve heard dozens of times. This implies that this person believes that their sexual energy only gets activated when they have a partner. Meaning that it is the partner who activates them. If you think that way, I...

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5 steps to getting sexy with yourself

Self-pleasure is actually a form of love making. And it is not the sex you have when you can’t get “real sex.” How you do yourself (or don’t) is a key in understanding your deeper erotic needs and your huge erotic potential. Knowing yourself is how you help your...

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Your vibrator is not your friend

Vibrators might give lots of pleasure, but let’s face it: the degree of stimulation that they offer is far more intense than what happens during intercourse. Some women tend to develop an addiction to intense stimulation, and then don’t feel much during sex. But...

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Before you came

Before you came There were moments when I questioned whether the life I had chosen could accept you next to me, I questioned whether there was enough space for you... I questioned and dismissed everything I’d seen modelled in the world of relationships. I was calling...

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Forever romantic

I have a confession to make. I don’t think I can ever stop being a romantic. I fall in love so hard. I’ve actually hurt myself because of that. In the past I used to derail completely for a phase, and made some awkward choices. At times I’ve questioned my sanity and...

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To the masculine

I want to ask you for forgiveness. I am sorry for all the times when I could not see you... I am sorry for all the times when I was too blind to be able to receive your love... I am sorry for all the times when I tried to change you, when I tried to make you...

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How to deal with your partner’s ex

At some point you may find that everyone in your circles has dated everyone else and there seems to be no escape from this loop. Generally, people tend to complain about this, as if there was something wrong with it. I don’t see it this way. I think that in all our...

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Miscarriage is not what you think it is

Many people have experienced miscarriage. For women this process is usually associated with a sense of grief, failure and even guilt. Also, the question: why me!? For men it can also be very emotional, they may be feeling like they don’t deserve to be a father or...

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As if I’ve ever been normal

I actually tried really hard to be “ok”. I tried to make people feel good in my presence. To fit in with the cool kids at my university. To fit into the model of what a beautiful and desirable woman should be. I even researched on the internet how to become a top...

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The Little Girl – The Woman – The Priestess

Every woman has these three aspects within her. They are all equally important. And they all need to be accepted and loved.   The Little Girl is that very young part of you. She is usually quite wounded, as she has absorbed everything like a sponge, she doesn’t have...

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Ending my seduction games

A few months ago I started something that I call a Relationships Fast. It’s been a very insightful time. It is incredible to zoom in specifically on seduction. So much of our lives revolves around seduction. And I want to share four of my findings with you because I...

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Honoring the warrior

Women have a very sacred place within them. It’s called the womb. Simply physiologically speaking, it is a pretty incredible place. Think about it: a woman can receive a seed and convert it into a human. A woman can receive a soul and convert it into a human. That’s...

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