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Why relationships don’t flow

I haven’t had many significant intimate relationships with women, and in those that I had I’ve always played the alpha role. I’ve been the more experienced one, and naturally that would put me more into my masculine energy. I would make decisions, offer direction to...

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Why all women need to connect with their vaginas

Yoni is the Sanskrit name for female genitalia. It also means the sacred temple, the gateway to the Universe and the Source. When we hear people speak about feminine empowerment, there are so many concepts around...

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Priestess State & How to serve Truth

Priestess is not a title or a superior position. Priestess refers to a state of alignment. Just like the word “Goddess” and the word “Tantra”, the word “Priestess” is largely being misused. This happens when people that have only limited understanding and awareness of...

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How to attract a partner

If only the “spiritual” women had a clue of how deeply manipulation is engrained in their system, they’d understand why no “spiritual” man sticks around. You can actually use certain techniques to attract a partner. But the problem is unless you are really clear...

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Eros is the energy of life

Eros is the energy of life. Orgasm is the flower of life. The biggest reason for lack of orgasm (I mean real deep tantric orgasm) is the ideas we have about what is an orgasm. The degree and depth of your orgasm depends on how open you are to life. I also see a direct...

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What is the Tantra thing about?

Most people completely misunderstand Tantra. The misconceptions are understandable. As soon as we open the door to sexual energy, we open the door to something incredibly powerful and incredibly intense. This intensity makes it very hard to stay on the tiger. It’s...

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Slutty, guilty or traumatised?

Guilt is the most problematic part of trauma healing. Deep down there is often found a part of the victim that enjoyed the act of what happened. And it is extremely hard to accept that part. However that is what promotes healing like nothing else. Controversial... To...

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Giving voice to the Feminine

We all have a major assignment. We need to find a meeting point for the Feminine and the Masculine. We have been confused for so long. We have been struggling, fighting, internally and externally. When this confusion is over it will bring an end to wars on this...

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How to become embodied

An embodied person is a rare and precious gem. We only become embodied when we drop all the nonsense that we have picked up from society. The nonsense includes: what our bodies should look like, how pleasure should feel and how to live our life. We become embodied...

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Free Bleeding ❤️

The best scenario for day one of your period is to just lie in bed all day. Because that’s when you lose the most blood (and therefore – vital force) and if you move and agitate yourself – you will be losing even more. I will share soon why (and how) we should try to...

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Bushes, nails and femininity

Only a decade ago I wouldn’t have even considered leaving the house without having my toe nails painted. I would refuse to get  sexy unless I had perfectly smooth legs and a Brazilian bikini. Then one day during one of my visits to Australia a man friend asked me:...

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Surrendering to the mystery of existence

I once had a really profound experience through being rejected by someone I was really attracted to. I tried everything on him. All my seduction tricks. I tried being very sweet. I tried being very expressive and sexy. I tried cornering him and demanding a date. I was...

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What I learnt from 6 months of celibacy

It was not the kind of celibacy when you don’t have sex because there’s no one around to have sex with. It was a choice to be single and to look at myself deeply, consider my sexual pulls and seduction strategies, and observe where and how I was leaking my life force...

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Your inner work will pay off

About this time three years ago I was in a tiny dark ground floor apartment in Lisbon: I hadn’t eaten for a few days, I was dealing with an infection, I was purging a lot of guilt and grief that my breakup had brought to the surface, I hardly left the house, I was...

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We are designed to be fucked by love

In relationships I have at times been avoidant AF. I would withdraw in the face of discomfort, incapable of communicating. I have also been anxious AF. I would demand attention and suffer because I’d never get it through my subtle or direct demands. I also have been...

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The Feminine, Trust and Sisterhood

Do you feel safe with and connected to the women around you? For a long time, I couldn’t trust women. I was a little scared of them. They felt so unpredictable, unreliable, unsafe… Then, about ten years ago I gathered my first women’s circle. Women of different ages,...

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Hacking jealousy

I used to consider myself a very jealous person. I also had a lot of shame about it. Wherever I would show up with my partner I would check out all the women and mark some of them with a thought of “danger”. I was constantly comparing myself to other women. And...

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Love for the sake of loving

How can I love you from purity? How can I love you from presence? How can I love you from spaciousness? How can I love you without mixing in desire that’s boiling in my belly and burning me to ashes from within?... How can I love you without mixing in the need to be...

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