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THE PERFECTLY FITTING PARTNER AND THE CHOICE TO LOVE

In reality you will always find something about your partner that could have been better. Always. Most people keep searching for a better partner. A perfectly fitting partner… Of course we have values and we want someone who ticks the boxes. But that’s an automatic...

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The Key to Connection

  When we encounter intense emotions or pain we tend to respond by closing.   Closing can take various forms:   Becoming very loud and overly-expressive, blasting other people with our emotions. Becoming cold and distant. Looking cool, as if nothing is happening, yet...

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Money

This is such an edgy subject for many people. Some feel completely lost and have no idea how to make money. Others are trying all sorts of manifestation practices, that sometimes work and sometimes don’t. Some people work really hard with no rest, and don’t even have...

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How to become a better lover?

Many people want to become better lovers. I remember how in my late teens I was googling things like: “how to have orgasms during sex”, and “how to give the best blowjob”. I thought these were the keys to being an amazing lover. What I came to realise is that the...

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11 steps to overcome male sexual challenges

Many men have experienced one of these symptoms or all of them: Challenges with getting or sustaining an erection, Experiencing an erection only when you are in the active role, Inability to ejaculate, Premature ejaculation. If any of these cases apply to you, it...

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Emotions and sexuality

What makes me uncomfortable is to be around people who are uncomfortable with Life. What frustrates me more that anything is how people repress Life. How people feel ill at ease with emotions. How people feel ill at ease with sexuality. As soon as someone experiences...

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How Tantra changed my life

Today many people know me as an international Tantra teacher, a woman who initiates incredibly important yet at times very uncomfortable conversations about sexuality, who holds training sessions in some of the most stunning locations in the world, someone who is...

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Ejaculation mastery: To cum or not to cum?

Ejaculation control is an ancient Taoist and tantric practice, which is referred to preservation of the seed and the vital force, what is known as the chi or prana.  When you have control over your ejaculation you...

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How can you introduce your partner to tantra?

I know how common it is in couples: one partner gets very excited about something and wants to bring something fresh into the relationship, and the other partner is… well, resisting. And if you have ever felt into Tantra, if you have become intrigued by it, if you...

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What’s the thing with nudity?

My nude photos are the ones that have the most engagement. People either love them or hate them. But no-one is neutral. When did nudity become something perverse? Something shocking? Nudity makes us think about sexuality. And so few are cool with that. We all were...

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Sex: The most important connection that you will ever have

  I believe that the main reason why we may choose to be with someone is because we want to feel deeply met. To be met means to have a connection that ignites our soul. Through this meeting we discover more of who we are; we are shown the areas where we could stretch...

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Why Does Everybody Need Sexual Healing?

We all have a certain level of shame and guilt around sexuality. Maybe even reading this makes you feel quite uncomfortable… We all have a lot of healing, unlearning and discarding of prejudices to do when it comes to sexuality. Even those of us who have never...

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V-LOG: What is Tantra?

This world has a deeply screwed up relationship with emotions and sex. We don't have enough safe spaces for those things to be fully expressed. People have no place to go to when they are depressed or anxious. Most mothers have no other outlet to express their anger...

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What Is Sex?

What is sex? A friction in the genitals? Some kissing, a bit of play, touch and rush to a finish line? Or the most incredible thing two human beings can experience as their souls merge? In sex I open up to a degree I can never open in any other circumstance. I shed my...

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Shameless Love For Cock

In India, in the beautiful city of Rishikesh there is a temple dedicated to Shiva. The temple is but a small room with a high ceiling and all there is inside is a huge three meter high statue made of black marble. It is a statue of a huge and mighty cock. Shiva is the...

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Full Body Orgasms – Want Some?

  It is possible for each and every human being to have an orgasm with the whole body. This kind of orgasm is also called tantric orgasm, multi orgasm, or energetic orgasm. It is called energetic orgasm, because it is actually happening in your energetic body, which...

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