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Inviting your partner into their heart

Inviting your partner into their heart

Any woman who chooses to be in a predominantly feminine energy mode in a relationship (and life) has an incredible superpower.⠀ ⠀ She can create a safe space for her partner to open his heart. ⠀ ⠀ *Note: I am referring to heterosexual relationships here (and in much...

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It is not about you

It is not about you

I’ll share a win with you. I once got very upset about something my lover at that time did. It was so painful I was burning on the inside. I had so many thoughts in my mind: “how could he do this! I want to leave! I want him to leave! I don’t want to know him! All...

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Death and love

Death and love

Yet another flight, however for a moment I thought it was going to be the last one. I witnessed myself breathing deeper and thinking: “If this is it... I thank you life. I have loved. I am ready to go.” And in case I go, I ask my loved ones to not make a big deal out...

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A million dollar secret

A million dollar secret

A million-dollar secret: this will likely change your intimate relationships (and life). When your partner is retreating/ running to the cave/ becoming emotionally distant/ leaning away, the natural response is to lean towards them. It can even be explained through...

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Yet another face of God

Yet another face of God

You have appeared in my life in so many forms. You’ve taken on so many faces.⠀ ⠀ Sometimes it feels as if you are hiding from me. I’m looking everywhere for you but I cannot see you.⠀ ⠀ Other times you reveal yourself by blasting me with light that shines through...

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Showing up for love

When priestesses come together they create a temple. Ultimately the whole world is our temple; it is our sacred space, our own big body. We also create a temple out of the physical location where we practice our holy work....

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Initiating men

Initiating men

Women have been initiating men since the beginning of time.⠀ ⠀ Over the last 2 months I’ve predominantly been surrounded by men, and only a few women.⠀ ⠀ Whenever I go out, I always end up speaking with men. Today I have appointments with 4 men back to back.⠀ ⠀ All...

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Why relationships don’t flow

Why relationships don’t flow

I haven’t had many significant intimate relationships with women, and in those that I had I’ve always played the alpha role. I’ve been the more experienced one, and naturally that would put me more into my masculine energy. I would make decisions, offer direction to...

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Why your cock is your best friend

Why your cock is your best friend? Your cock is your power centre, the positive pole of your body, according to Taoism. You are actually penetrating the world with your cock. Your relationship with your cock may...

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Why all women need to connect with their vaginas

Yoni is the Sanskrit name for female genitalia. It also means the sacred temple, the gateway to the Universe and the Source. When we hear people speak about feminine empowerment, there are so many concepts around...

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Find the heat in your belly

Find the heat in your belly

Most people have a tendency to hold on. To what? To everything! To the unresolved issues with other people, to the past, to they pain and wounds, to dreams and expectations, to an unhealthy self image, to an idea of their own unworthiness... I think this happens...

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“You make me happy”

“You make me happy”

“You make me happy” - some of the most dangerous words anyone can say. When you see someone you love and your whole being lights up.... your face softens automatically and you feel so happy to have their arms around you. All you want is this, and more of this... Then,...

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Divine Eros and discovering the Divine in the Eros

Divine Eros and discovering the Divine in the Eros

For many people it is a mystery how these two words can even be put together. Eros is perceived as something of lower nature, when Divine is… well, Divine. High. Superhuman… Yet, in reality the nature of Eros is Divine. In order to discover it we have to reveal all...

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Why you must thrive

Why you must thrive

Many people have a tendency to become really affected by the behaviour of their partners. For simplicity it’s called co-dependency. So here’s a download for everyone who’s interested in shifting this old unnecessary pattern: Your life has to be so awesome and you need...

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Who is in your field?

Who is in your field?

When I start connecting intimately with someone I like to know who they were connecting with before me. If I have met any of those people I try to reach out to them. I am well aware that it’s not something that’s common in our society. Quite the opposite tends to...

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Eros is the energy of life

Eros is the energy of life

Eros is the energy of life. Orgasm is the flower of life. The biggest reason for lack of orgasm (I mean real deep tantric orgasm) is the ideas we have about what is an orgasm. The degree and depth of your orgasm depends on how open you are to life. I also see a direct...

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The Grand Acceptance

The Grand Acceptance

Accepting something sounds pretty simple, but is it, really? Accepting when life just doesn’t go the way you were absolutely certain it would, when what you thought was a bright destiny dissolves into murky waters... Accepting when someone makes a choice that goes...

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When life gets foggy

When life gets foggy

Sometimes you walk into a fog. You adapt real quick and don’t notice when the fog gets real think... Naturally you think that that’s how reality is - you move with it, you don’t even question. You’re just doing your thing You keep walking through the fog. Maybe from...

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What is the Tantra thing about?

What is the Tantra thing about?

Most people completely misunderstand Tantra. The misconceptions are understandable. As soon as we open the door to sexual energy, we open the door to something incredibly powerful and incredibly intense. This intensity makes it very hard to stay on the tiger. It’s...

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Slutty, guilty or traumatised?

Slutty, guilty or traumatised?

Guilt is the most problematic part of trauma healing. Deep down there is often found a part of the victim that enjoyed the act of what happened. And it is extremely hard to accept that part. However that is what promotes healing like nothing else. Controversial... To...

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