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Why relationships don’t flow

I haven’t had many significant intimate relationships with women, and in those that I had I’ve always played the alpha role. I’ve been the more experienced one, and naturally that would put me more into my masculine energy. I would make decisions, offer direction to...

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Why your cock is your best friend

Why your cock is your best friend? Your cock is your power centre, the positive pole of your body, according to Taoism. You are actually penetrating the world with your cock. Your relationship with your cock may...

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Why all women need to connect with their vaginas

Yoni is the Sanskrit name for female genitalia. It also means the sacred temple, the gateway to the Universe and the Source. When we hear people speak about feminine empowerment, there are so many concepts around...

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Find the heat in your belly

Most people have a tendency to hold on. To what? To everything! To the unresolved issues with other people, to the past, to they pain and wounds, to dreams and expectations, to an unhealthy self image, to an idea of their own unworthiness... I think this happens...

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“You make me happy”

“You make me happy” - some of the most dangerous words anyone can say. When you see someone you love and your whole being lights up.... your face softens automatically and you feel so happy to have their arms around you. All you want is this, and more of this... Then,...

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Divine Eros and discovering the Divine in the Eros

For many people it is a mystery how these two words can even be put together. Eros is perceived as something of lower nature, when Divine is… well, Divine. High. Superhuman… Yet, in reality the nature of Eros is Divine. In order to discover it we have to reveal all...

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Why you must thrive

Many people have a tendency to become really affected by the behaviour of their partners. For simplicity it’s called co-dependency. So here’s a download for everyone who’s interested in shifting this old unnecessary pattern: Your life has to be so awesome and you need...

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Who is in your field?

When I start connecting intimately with someone I like to know who they were connecting with before me. If I have met any of those people I try to reach out to them. I am well aware that it’s not something that’s common in our society. Quite the opposite tends to...

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Eros is the energy of life

Eros is the energy of life. Orgasm is the flower of life. The biggest reason for lack of orgasm (I mean real deep tantric orgasm) is the ideas we have about what is an orgasm. The degree and depth of your orgasm depends on how open you are to life. I also see a direct...

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The Grand Acceptance

Accepting something sounds pretty simple, but is it, really? Accepting when life just doesn’t go the way you were absolutely certain it would, when what you thought was a bright destiny dissolves into murky waters... Accepting when someone makes a choice that goes...

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When life gets foggy

Sometimes you walk into a fog. You adapt real quick and don’t notice when the fog gets real think... Naturally you think that that’s how reality is - you move with it, you don’t even question. You’re just doing your thing You keep walking through the fog. Maybe from...

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What is the Tantra thing about?

Most people completely misunderstand Tantra. The misconceptions are understandable. As soon as we open the door to sexual energy, we open the door to something incredibly powerful and incredibly intense. This intensity makes it very hard to stay on the tiger. It’s...

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Slutty, guilty or traumatised?

Guilt is the most problematic part of trauma healing. Deep down there is often found a part of the victim that enjoyed the act of what happened. And it is extremely hard to accept that part. However that is what promotes healing like nothing else. Controversial... To...

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Me and my crises

My crises are a very important part of my life. It is through my crises that I gain a renewed sense of love for life and my people, as well as greater compassion, clarity and vision. I sometimes have to go down to the bottom to rise higher. These crises are incredibly...

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Want to know the root of men’s confidence?

A man’s confidence is strongly linked to his relationship with his cock. The thing is, we cannot authentically engage with the world and people around us unless we are in absolute acceptance and love of our own selves. And guess what is a very important part of us...

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Giving voice to the Feminine

We all have a major assignment. We need to find a meeting point for the Feminine and the Masculine. We have been confused for so long. We have been struggling, fighting, internally and externally. When this confusion is over it will bring an end to wars on this...

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Are you trapped in karmic relationships?

Who doesn’t love the natural high we get when we fall in love…? However here is something you need to know: the really intense relationships, with passionate feelings and regular major pushes and pulls and ups and downs usually have a karmic nature. What is karma? The...

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How to become embodied

An embodied person is a rare and precious gem. We only become embodied when we drop all the nonsense that we have picked up from society. The nonsense includes: what our bodies should look like, how pleasure should feel and how to live our life. We become embodied...

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My First Tantra Workshop

I remember attending my first Tantra workshop, there were about 100 people. At first I felt very cautious, I was checking out the people, I was not sure whether I fitted in (of course not!). The teacher was sharing about the sacredness of our pleasure, of our...

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Heart-gasm

My arms, my whole chest is tingling. The amount of love I feel for you is bursting from every pore, from the very core of me, in the very core of my heart I feel you. In the very core of your heart I feel me. The waves of orgasmic pleasure emerge from the Center of my...

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