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Sex: To Pound Or Not To Pound?

  The potential of conscious sex is glorious. Conscious sex can be our means to opening to God. Tantric sex can expand us like nothing else. Yet there is a belief that many people share that good sex equals hard sex, and that a woman needs to be taken really hard...

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Let’s get laid. Shall we?

Sometimes we meet those special people that attract us, that make us curious. Being in their presence makes us feel something special, something unlike the ordinary, some people just seem to come into our lives with magic. And most often...

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I Give Life To Love

You entered my life without any consideration about my plans, my excitement about single life and superficial connections. You entered with a full yes, full commitment to stay through whatever comes. Who am I in front of that commitment? How does it make me feel to be...

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The Truth About Orgasms

What image do you see when you think of sex? Maybe it’s all about thrusting, sweating, pumping and humping. Then reaching a peak (hopefully), cuddling a little (maybe), smoking a cigarette and falling asleep. This is a mainstream view of sex, this is what we learn...

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What Do Women Want?

Women… they will feed you with their “I don’t know” and “maybe”... Women… will confuse you with their changing nature... Women… will make you feel like you are losing your ground... They will test you, drive you nuts, encourage you, discourage you, blow you open, shut...

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No Man Can Handle You? Here’s Why.

Do you ever feel as if no man can handle you? It is something that I hear a lot from women I work with. I used to feel that way about myself too. Sometimes as women we feel so emotional, so full of desire, so intense, so powerful… And when we share it, or give a...

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The Number One Secret to Being Irresistible

That endless thirst to be desirable, to  be attractive… Sexuality is the main driving force on this planet. Try to argue with that: almost everything we do in life is about being attractive. People buy expensive clothes, cars, get tanned, do sports, perform plastic...

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Sweet Surrender

A lover told me once: "there are many things I admire about you, but what turns me on the most is your confidence and trust. This is just so fucking sexy”. Trust can take many shapes. It can look like self confidence, a certain way of speaking, moving and holding...

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Mother Earth, I love you

After spending entire days and nights in nature, my body feels so wide awake. In nature we can release our shields, open up energetically - in our bones we know: it is safe. And coming back to “normal” life, being surrounded by electronic devices, wires, wifi and...

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Why Love Is So Damn Scary

Love… is not the thing that happens after 3 months or 2 years of being together. Love… is not something that depends on what we do. Love… is not meant to fit into any kind of condition or shape. If we dare to look deep enough, we see that love… is at the basis of...

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6 Steps of the Yoni Puja: The Worship of the Feminine Essence

What does the word yoni mean? Yoni is translated from Sanskrit as the sacred temple. And it refers to the female genitalia, vulva. Our pussies have been called so many different names: “down there”, “pipi”, “hole”, “cockpocket”, “hairy mussel”, “goodies”, “honey pot”,...

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Yoni Power

Let's talk about an amazing part of the feminine body, an amazing gift that the Universe has given us - the Yoni. Yoni is the Sanskrit name for female genitalia. It also means the sacred temple, the gateway to the Universe and the source. When we hear people speak...

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Lover as a Healer, Lover as a Liberator

To me there are not many things in life that are as empowering as  a lover who fully embraces my sexual expression. It takes a lover who is sexually free him/herself. Who has dealt with the social conditioning and shame around their own sexuality. Growing up as women...

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Woman as an Initiatress

Most of us are playing games. Most don’t see the games they play. These games become habits deeply ingrained in the psyche. But what if we dare not to follow? What if we dare to make authentic choices moment by moment and really follow our values? Can we actually...

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How To Set Up Your Own Intimacy Retreat

I have just emerged out of a month long tantric intimacy and sexuality retreat that I did with a lover. We actually didn’t plan it to be such an intensive immersion, we just agreed to meet and hang out for a few weeks together in Ibiza. But then we found ourselves in...

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Sex & Shame

Someone is translating my entire website into Russian (great news, hey!), and something struck me as I was reading through my own article on ejaculation. I am a tantra teacher and speaking and writing about sexuality is part of my day-to-day life, sometimes I also end...

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To Shiva

I am a devotee of Shiva as much as I am the devotee of Shakti. I worship the divine masculine. Shiva is the name of the divine masculine. There have been a few incredibly special men in my life who have played a massive role in my transformation and awakening....

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Too much sexual energy – is it your problem?

Have you ever felt that you need to be taken now and that's the only thing that matters? Have you ever felt that you are addicted to sex, and you only want more and more of this sweet medicine? Have you ever felt trembling in your womb that feels like an erupting...

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Dirty talk & Deep Intimacy

What is the best part about sex? Thrills? Orgasms? Surrender to love? Dirty talk? The possibility of expressing the naughtiest parts of us?... Well, it’s all great, but the greatest thing is intimacy. Pure, deep intimacy. Intimacy is that feeling of being close to...

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Keys To A Happy Relationship

A loving and deep long-term relationship is priceless. It has a huge potential to transform us, make us better, stronger and fulfilled on a deep level. But all this doesn’t come by default. Once you have a beautiful partner it’s just the beginning. After that it’s...

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Breast Love and Breast Massage Techniques

Many women learn to disown their bodies, and often our precious breasts is where it all starts. Our breasts have a yang quality to them - they are very visible, even if covered by layers of clothing. From an early age we have all gotten messages from the media about...

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