The Key to Connection

The Key to Connection

  When we encounter intense emotions or pain we tend to respond by closing.   Closing can take various forms:   Becoming very loud and overly-expressive, blasting other people with our emotions. Becoming cold and distant. Looking cool, as if nothing is happening, yet...
Forever romantic

Forever romantic

I have a confession to make. I don’t think I can ever stop being a romantic. I fall in love so hard. I’ve actually hurt myself because of that. In the past I used to derail completely for a phase, and made some awkward choices. At times I’ve questioned my sanity and...
To the masculine

To the masculine

I want to ask you for forgiveness. I am sorry for all the times when I could not see you… I am sorry for all the times when I was too blind to be able to receive your love… I am sorry for all the times when I tried to change you, when I tried to make you...
How to become a better lover?

How to become a better lover?

Many people want to become better lovers. I remember how in my late teens I was googling things like: “how to have orgasms during sex”, and “how to give the best blowjob”. I thought these were the keys to being an amazing lover. What I came to realise is that the...
The eternal beloved

The eternal beloved

For as long as I can remember myself, relationships have always been my “thing”. Ever since I was five years old, my Barbies were getting married and having sex; I watched soap opera with my grandmother and my favourite stuff was always about...
What makes unavailable people so attractive?

What makes unavailable people so attractive?

Many of us experienced falling in love with a pop star or someone famous when we were younger. Many are mysteriously drawn to those men or women who are married. Sometimes we fall in love with a person who for some specific reasons is not available to be there for us...

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