Women… they will feed you with their “I don’t know” and “maybe”…
Women… will confuse you with their changing nature…
Women… will make you feel like you are losing your ground…
They will test you, drive you nuts, encourage you, discourage you, blow you open, shut you off, demand attention, bitch around, come with an earthshaking gift…
But women will rarely tell you what they want. Not because we want to hide it. But because our deepest desire is not intellectual.
Deep down women want one thing.
We want your masculinity.
We want your depth.
We want your truth.
And this is where the games end.
We want to feel penetrated.
And not only by your lingam.
We want to feel penetrated by your energy, by your love, your presence, your consciousness.
We want to feel that the consciousness/shiva touches every single secret spot within us/shakti.
The feminine yearns to be seen.
That’s where all the make up, fancy dresses and obsession with our body parts come from.
All that merely mimics the real yearning to be seen deeply, to be met, to feel entered… all the way to the level of our soul.
We want to feel your consciousness deep inside of us. We long to surrender, to open up beyond measure…
We want the real you.
We want to feel your edge.
We want you to not be intimidated by your own desire.
We want to feel you owning your cock.
Actually on a very practical note, something really powerful that a man can do in or outside of love making is literally drop into his cock.
Be present with your partner, look into each others eyes and at the same time feel into your lingam, and visualise/ feel how you are dropping into it. Eventually you will feel as if your lingam is becoming energetically bigger.
You give him space.
And if your partner is sensitive enough, just that may trigger a massive orgasmic wave of pleasure in her.
Because we want to feel all of you. And we cannot feel you when you are stuck in your head.
When you are fully in your cock – you are fully in your male power.
And there’s not much that you have to do from there.
Start by just being.
In the being we will meet.
And from there you will know.