We all have a certain level of shame and guilt around sexuality. Maybe even reading this makes you feel quite uncomfortable… We all have a lot of healing, unlearning and discarding of prejudices to do when it comes to sexuality.
Even those of us who have never directly experienced abuse have all suffered to some degree or other from traumatic experiences around our sexuality.
Think about it now: as a child were you ever caught by your elders when you were touching your genitals? What was their response?
It’s quite unlikely that they were encouraging you to explore. Most probably, just like me and most of us, you were shamed… And this is a trauma. From there we subconsciously start associating sex with something dirty, something that cannot be discussed openly, something that’s done behind closed doors and curtains, preferably with your eyes closed and as quickly as possible. And afterwards it only follows that we have to take a shower to rinse off some of that sin.
It is not our parents who need to be blamed for this, or anyone else who in their ignorance made us feel that our sexuality is shameful. Because they didn’t know any better.
I believe that the real reason for these feelings of shame is that despite this seeming ignorance, deep down we all have the intuition that sexuality is where our power is. That when our sexual energy flows freely we become extremely powerful…
And what are we really scared of? Of the small and ugly? Or of the powerful?
Yes, we are all actually scared of the real power that’s within us.
Because we know that once that is unleashed… we become limitless… we become so big… we cannot hide behind blame or projection anymore.
We all have decades or even millennia of tension stored in our pelvises. Typically there is a lot of clenching and tightness in our genitals.
And there is a way to release it. Pushing or forcing is not the way. It will only create more tension.
We can let our sexuality blossom and open like a lotus flower.
And this will be a gift not only to our partner, but to the entire world.
In my course Tantra: Your Initiation Into Sacred Sexuality I offer you a way to do exactly that.
It is a gift to the whole world because by taking up this initiative we are shifting a very old and heavy paradigm, and we are paving the path for future generations; hopefully our children and grandchildren will grow up knowing Life as sacred, knowing sexuality as sacred.
From my own experience and years of work I know one thing for sure:
Your unleashed sexuality is the gateway to your highest potential, you can be loved and honored for who you are, you can live exactly the life you desire, you can be filled with joy and ecstasy and your radiance is exactly the medicine that the world needs right now, and all of it is deeply spiritual.
Even though I never thought I needed any sexual healing, I have done a ton of it and opened up to the orgasmic pleasure which I never thought was possible. I am convinced that unlocking my sexual potential was THE experience that I needed to start living fully and manifesting the life of my dreams.
Besides that, and what is in fact most important, once our sexual energy flows freely the potential of our body as portal to our own spirit is clear.
And then our body becomes a temple.
Then we don’t need to look for anything outside of us. We don’t need to be filled by food, by a partner, or anything else. Because we discover the very source of all within.
We discover the divine within.