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How to make them want you

There are lots of strategies that you can learn to get the attention of someone you like. There are even so-called “pick up artists” that spend their entire lives mastering these kinds of tricks. You can take classes on how to become the most desirable person ever....

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Why “manifestation” doesn’t work

These days people love to talk about the power of manifestation. There are lots of methods that are said to help achieve it. Some say you just have to imagine how it would feel if you already had that particular thing you want, and simply cultivate that feeling. Other...

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When sex hurts

People commonly think that sex is all about pleasure, joy, ecstasy and orgasms. But most of us have experienced sex which was painful, sex during which we experienced burning and aching in the genitals and pelvis. Many people have also experienced sex which provoked...

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Are you scaring away your beloved?

I receive many emails from people (mostly women) asking how to attract a beloved. Maybe there is someone in your life that you want a deeper connection with. Or maybe you haven’t met this person yet, but you want to welcome him/her into your life. Some women end up...

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Sexploration

I find that it is quite important to have at least one phase in your life when you engage in lots of sexual experiments, either with lots of sexual partners or with one partner who is willing to really go for it with you. It’s a time to let yourself be naughty,...

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Men and sensuality

It’s very easy to find sensual images of women. But so hard to find sensual images of men! Why? Is it because sensuality is not manly? Is it because men are not supposed to be emotional, to feel, to enjoy their body? Is a man only supposed to be strong, provide for...

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Are you pleasure dependent on a partner?

“Sexuality? It’s not for me, I’m single,” - a phrase I’ve heard dozens of times. This implies that this person believes that their sexual energy only gets activated when they have a partner. Meaning that it is the partner who activates them. If you think that way, I...

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5 steps to getting sexy with yourself

Self-pleasure is actually a form of love making. And it is not the sex you have when you can’t get “real sex.” How you do yourself (or don’t) is a key in understanding your deeper erotic needs and your huge erotic potential. Knowing yourself is how you help your...

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Your vibrator is not your friend

Vibrators might give lots of pleasure, but let’s face it: the degree of stimulation that they offer is far more intense than what happens during intercourse. Some women tend to develop an addiction to intense stimulation, and then don’t feel much during sex. But...

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The perfectly fitting partner and the choice to love

In reality you will always find something about your partner that could have been better. Always. Most people keep searching for a better partner. A perfectly fitting partner… Of course we have values and we want someone who ticks the boxes. But that’s an automatic...

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Tantra, pleasure and truth

Most people completely misunderstand Tantra. Including those who have practiced with authentic carriers of this ancient wisdom. The misconceptions are understandable. As soon as we open the door to sexual energy, we open the door to something incredibly powerful and...

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Why my courses cost so much

(Some of my students and clients have actually told me that they were hesitating to come to study with me because they found my prices too low.) But here’s what I have to say to this. I am charging what I know I have to charge. The price of longer training sessions is...

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The Key to Connection

When we encounter intense emotions or pain we tend to respond by closing. Closing can take various forms: Becoming very loud and overly-expressive, blasting other people with our emotions. Becoming cold and distant. Looking cool, as if nothing is happening, yet...

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Forever romantic

I have a confession to make. I don’t think I can ever stop being a romantic. I fall in love so hard. I’ve actually hurt myself because of that. In the past I used to derail completely for a phase, and made some awkward choices. At times I’ve questioned my sanity and...

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To the masculine

I want to ask you for forgiveness. I am sorry for all the times when I could not see you... I am sorry for all the times when I was too blind to be able to receive your love... I am sorry for all the times when I tried to change you, when I tried to make you...

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How to become a better lover?

Many people want to become better lovers. I remember how in my late teens I was googling things like: “how to have orgasms during sex”, and “how to give the best blowjob”. I thought these were the keys to being an amazing lover. What I came to realise is that the...

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The eternal beloved

For as long as I can remember myself, relationships have always been my "thing". Ever since I was five years old, my Barbies were getting married and having sex; I watched soap opera with my grandmother and my favourite stuff was always about relationships; my first...

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11 steps to overcome male sexual challenges

Many men have experienced one of these symptoms or all of them: Challenges with getting or sustaining an erection, Experiencing an erection only when you are in the active role, Inability to ejaculate, Premature ejaculation. If any of these cases apply to you, it...

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How Tantra changed my life

Today many people know me as an international Tantra teacher, a woman who initiates incredibly important yet at times very uncomfortable conversations about sexuality, who holds training sessions in some of the most stunning locations in the world, someone who is...

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