What is the Tantra thing about?
Most people completely misunderstand Tantra. The misconceptions are understandable. As soon as we open the door to sexual energy, we open the door to something incredibly powerful and incredibly intense. This intensity makes it very hard to stay on the tiger. It’s...
Fear of Going Deeper
He walked in and sat next to me. “I am scared,” – he said. “I really want a deep relationship, but I’m so scared. Once we start going deeper, I pull away and reject the woman, all because I’m so fucking scared that I will open my heart to her and then she will...
Ghosting
When I was 19 I broke up with my boyfriend over an online messenger. For over a month I was moving away from him, deep down knowing that I was over him but hoping that he would just get it and I wouldn’t need to explain anything. I just wanted him to let me go and...
Best Tantric positions for love making
I was interviewed for a popular magazine recently and they asked me to name the two best positions for Tantric sex for heterosexual couples. I offered three. There are positions that allow very deep penetration. For example, when the woman places her legs on the...
When people don’t show up the way you want them to
Is there someone in your life who is not showing up for you in the way you’d like them to? It usually hurts a lot because it feels like that person is behaving in this way because they don’t like you enough. In fact it usually hurts like hell because somewhere deep...
Surrendering to the mystery of existence
I once had a really profound experience through being rejected by someone I was really attracted to. I tried everything on him. All my seduction tricks. I tried being very sweet. I tried being very expressive and sexy. I tried cornering him and demanding a date. I was...
THE AUTHOR
Sofia Sundari is a mystic, tantrika and a writer. She facilitates courses on tantric & taoist sexuality and mystical femininity and helps people all over the world remember the power and innocence of their erotic nature.