Why relationships don’t flow
I haven’t had many significant intimate relationships with women, and in those that I had I’ve always played the alpha role. I’ve been the more experienced one, and naturally that would put me more into my masculine energy. I would make decisions, offer direction to...
How to attract a partner
If only the “spiritual” women had a clue of how deeply manipulation is engrained in their system, they’d understand why no “spiritual” man sticks around. You can actually use certain techniques to attract a partner. But the problem is unless you are really clear...
Find the heat in your belly
Most people have a tendency to hold on. To what? To everything! To the unresolved issues with other people, to the past, to they pain and wounds, to dreams and expectations, to an unhealthy self image, to an idea of their own unworthiness… I think this happens...
“You make me happy”
“You make me happy” – some of the most dangerous words anyone can say. When you see someone you love and your whole being lights up…. your face softens automatically and you feel so happy to have their arms around you. All you want is this, and more of...
Why you must thrive
Many people have a tendency to become really affected by the behaviour of their partners. For simplicity it’s called co-dependency. So here’s a download for everyone who’s interested in shifting this old unnecessary pattern: Your life has to be so awesome and you need...
Who is in your field?
When I start connecting intimately with someone I like to know who they were connecting with before me. If I have met any of those people I try to reach out to them. I am well aware that it’s not something that’s common in our society. Quite the opposite tends to...
THE AUTHOR
Sofia Sundari is a mystic, tantrika and a writer. She facilitates courses on tantric & taoist sexuality and mystical femininity and helps people all over the world remember the power and innocence of their erotic nature.