September 15, 2020

The opposite of a karmic relationship is a dharmic relationship. ⠀

Dharma (Sanskrit) means the eternal nature of reality, regarded as a cosmic law underlying right behaviour and social order. Basically, the Highest destiny.⠀

This type of relationship is more rare, because it requires a certain spiritual maturity of both people involved. Unlike a karmic relationship, its purpose is not primarily to support your emotional healing, but rather to help you step into your light and become truly inwardly free.⠀

You cannot step into your light until you have done enough emotional healing, hence dharmic relationships tend to come after you’ve done plenty of inner work, possibly later in life. Of course the inner work continues, so things for sure will be coming up in a dharmic relationship too, but in a different way.⠀

A Dharmic relationship tends to be a lot more cool from the start. Passion and emotions are also present, but in a more harmonious way. It’s the relationship that shatters our preconceived notions and ideals we clung to about what love was supposed to be. The connection comes when we least expect it and it can’t be explained and startles us because we never planned for it.⠀

Love of a Dharmic relationship comes so easy it doesn’t seem possible. This is the kind of relating where we come together with someone and it just fits – there aren’t expectations about how each person should be acting, nor is there pressure to become someone who we are not. We are simply accepted for who we are already – and it shakes us to our core.⠀

Dharmic relationship comes with love that just feels right. And it’s the one that actually lasts.⠀
The one that shows us why it never worked out before.⠀

Here comes the answer to your question:⠀

Yes, you can turn your karmic relationship into a dharmic one!⠀

It is not easy. But it is possible.⠀


By taking responsibility for your power and for your love.⠀

You need to turn inwards. ⠀
Do the work.⠀
Learn how to make your energy flow.⠀
How to feel and express what you feel in a clear and compassionate way. ⠀
How to make your fire burn on the inside, ⠀
so everything that is not serving you can be alchemised and transformed into love.⠀

It really works that way.⠀

You need to do it individually. As well as together. ⠀

Photo by @kjartur

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