April 15, 2020

Sacred union with a beloved is only possible from a space of freedom. ⠀

True freedom is an internal quality. Freedom is not possible without courage. For some people this courage will look like madness. For the happy few who’ve tasted this freedom… there is simply no other way. Because without courage you will never be able to cut the rope and be free.⠀

Until we know the taste of real freedom we will keep holding onto the rope and we will keep searching. We will keep searching for something external that will fill in the missing bit in our hearts. ⠀

However as long as we are looking to fill the missing bit with something external, we are unavailable to freedom. Only when we can let go of the rope of conditioning, we can recognise that the missing bit in our hearts continually leads us to the Divine. ⠀

For it can only be ever filled by the Divine.⠀

While we are busy searching we are not able to love. The search has to end. Once the search is over, we stabilise in a place of ripeness and we know that: this is me, I am here, I feel, I am fully alive as Life, I know myself, I am no longer looking for myself. ⠀

Then there finally is a space for another. ⠀

From the space of inner ripeness you don’t need to change this person and adapt them to an illusory ideal that is intended to fill in the hole in your heart. You fully accept them, as they are. ⠀

Then you will allow your beloved to enter your inner temple, your holy of hollies. ⠀

Within your temple there is a space for your beloved to be revealed. That is the magic of a sacred union: when we are held in the light of love of the Union, we are being revealed, in a greater way than we have ever been revealed.⠀


Amen, aloha, namaste and aho to the Force that has changed destinies, transformed realities and saved lives, that is known under many names, but the most beautiful of those is Love.

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