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The reason you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men
If you are anything like most people you have had the experience of falling in love with a person who for some reason is not available to be there for you emotionally, spiritually, sɘxually or physically.
It feels like a mysterious pull — wanting what you can’t have…
In the years of looking into it with my clients, time and time again, I have found that the main reason for it is this:
Internal confusion and disconnection from yourself.
And I’m saying this with all my love, I too have been there and I know how much it hurts…
The truth is:
If you don’t know yourself in depth,
You won’t know what you are truly meant for…
and you won’t vibrate on a frequency that attracts the “right” partner.
If you keep falling for the “wrong people” it means your wounds are pulling you into recreating a scenario that you experienced as a child. Perhaps a caretaker was not there when you needed them.
So now, you are attracting someone who cannot fully show up for you and on a certain level it feels safe – because it is familiar.
The anxious attachment pattern kicks in and the more you try to grasp for attention, the more he distances himself…
Beloved, this is a call for transformation.
The good news is that you can transform those wounds, nurture yourself on a deep level and open up to the kind of Love you are truly meant for.
It doesn’t even have to involve years and years of therapy.
I’ve seen this many times.
I’ve experienced it myself.
And that’s why I know: You can have it.
In fact… you are made for it.
Once you have applied the Nectar of true ecstatic life, which I will be revealing in my Masterclass CALLING HIM, you will have the sacred skill of keep your heart and energy body open to the right man (be it the man who is yet to come into your life or the one right beside you) as well as clarity on what to do and what not to do to be irresistible to the man of your dreams.
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