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Inviting your partner into their heart

Any woman who chooses to be in a predominantly feminine energy mode in a relationship (and life) has an incredible superpower.⠀ ⠀ She can create a safe space for her partner to open his heart. ⠀ ⠀ *Note: I am referring to heterosexual relationships here (and in much of my writing), although it works in exactly the same way for homosexual couples.  ⠀ ⠀ We all need to feel safe in order to open our hearts. ⠀ ⠀ Safety cannot be underestimated. We all have small or big wounds in our lives which...

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Inviting your partner into their heart

Inviting your partner into their heart

Any woman who chooses to be in a predominantly feminine energy mode in a relationship (and life) has an incredible superpower.⠀ ⠀ She can create a safe space for her partner to open his heart. ⠀ ⠀ *Note: I am referring to heterosexual relationships here (and in much...

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It is not about you

It is not about you

I’ll share a win with you. I once got very upset about something my lover at that time did. It was so painful I was burning on the inside. I had so many thoughts in my mind: “how could he do this! I want to leave! I want him to leave! I don’t want to know him! All...

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Death and love

Death and love

Yet another flight, however for a moment I thought it was going to be the last one. I witnessed myself breathing deeper and thinking: “If this is it... I thank you life. I have loved. I am ready to go.” And in case I go, I ask my loved ones to not make a big deal out...

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Your “no” protects you from being pulled on energetically

Your “no” protects you from being pulled on energetically

To those tender people who have a hard time saying “no” .... I get it. I get that you really love harmony. I get that you hate upsetting people. I get that you have had experiences in the past that taught you that each time you don’t do what is asked/expected from...

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I care about you enough to express how I feel

I care about you enough to express how I feel

I didn’t grow up having permission to express how I felt or knowing how to express myself at all. All I knew was that when mum got upset she would yell at me. So, very early on I started feeling that emotions were unsafe. Emotional intelligence is not something we are...

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Why are you behaving that way?

Why are you behaving that way?

Something major shifted in my relational dynamics when I stopped assuming that when I was offended by something the other person did, they were supposed to know better and not misbehave. Instead I learnt to become curious: why are they behaving that way? Maybe they...

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A million dollar secret

A million dollar secret

A million-dollar secret: this will likely change your intimate relationships (and life). When your partner is retreating/ running to the cave/ becoming emotionally distant/ leaning away, the natural response is to lean towards them. It can even be explained through...

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We are fighting life all the time

We are fighting life all the time

We are trying to create pleasant experiences and repel the unpleasant. When we have unpleasant experiences, we tend to think that something has gone wrong. Others did me wrong. I did wrong to myself. This becomes a game. And over time you learn the drill quite well,...

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Ageing is a myth

Ageing is a myth

When I was 13 people were asking me which year of Uni I was in. Now sometimes people think I’m 10 years younger than what I really am. Other times - 10 years older. When I look at my photos taken during times when I felt really low - I look much older. When I’m in my...

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Beloved Woman

Beloved Woman

Beloved Woman, Do you know how invincible you are when you dare to show a little bit of your heart? Through your courageous loving eyes, you let the light of Spirit shine. Through your kind touch you let the Great Mother touch his heart. When you free yourself from...

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Yet another face of God

Yet another face of God

You have appeared in my life in so many forms. You’ve taken on so many faces.⠀ ⠀ Sometimes it feels as if you are hiding from me. I’m looking everywhere for you but I cannot see you.⠀ ⠀ Other times you reveal yourself by blasting me with light that shines through...

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Showing up for love

When priestesses come together they create a temple. Ultimately the whole world is our temple; it is our sacred space, our own big body. We also create a temple out of the physical location where we practice our holy work....

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Priestess manifesto

Priestess manifesto

I am a Priestess. ⠀ ⠀ I am stepping on this earth in full certainty with every step, because I have endless trust that I am held. With every step I trust. With every step I kiss this earth. With every step I bless this earth. ⠀ ⠀ I have dedicated my life to love. I...

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Initiating men

Initiating men

Women have been initiating men since the beginning of time.⠀ ⠀ Over the last 2 months I’ve predominantly been surrounded by men, and only a few women.⠀ ⠀ Whenever I go out, I always end up speaking with men. Today I have appointments with 4 men back to back.⠀ ⠀ All...

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“What if it was all my fault?..”

“What if it was all my fault?..”

If you are anything like me and you are used to taking responsibility for EVERYTHING, you are a bit of a perfectionist and have VERY high standards.... then it’s likely that you have a tendency to see yourself as being responsible for everything that’s happening in...

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Doing what makes you feel good – is it selfish?

Doing what makes you feel good – is it selfish?

Doing what makes you feel good - is it selfish? ⠀ ⠀ I’m currently in vacation mode. What this means is that I do a lot of practice, take care of myself and ⠀ reflect on yet another wild year. I also talk to my friends - I finally have time for really deep dives. ⠀ ⠀ A...

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Love is here

Love is here

Love is here. ⠀ She came to destroy you. So she does that, ruthlessly. You’re lost to your sense of identity. You are ⠀ crushed and crumbled. ⠀ ⠀ It is love. ⠀ ⠀ Just when you thought she was done with you, she comes and pours nectar all over your wounds, she ⠀ wraps...

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The Sensitive

The Sensitive

[Or a letter of gratitude to everyone who has managed to actually know and love me] ⠀ ⠀ Do you know that it’s the most sensitive people that usually appear most cold on the outside? ⠀ ⠀ You got it right – I’m talking from experience. ⠀ ⠀ As much as I am known to be...

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Hot coals

Hot coals

Some people in your life are going to be like hot coals. They will burn the edges of your wings. They will ⠀ leave marks on your feet. They will leave a few holes in your heart. ⠀ ⠀ It will take some time to come back to your fullness after such encounters. It will...

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The nice

The nice

I used to do everything I could to avoid conflict. I valued external harmony so much, so often it would come at expense of my internal harmony and integrity. It never felt right, I felt tortured on the inside. But I still was doing everything I could to put others...

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I am more me when I’m with you

I am more me when I’m with you

I’ve been reflecting on how different I am while in a relationship vs while single. I am a split definition in Human Design, and as much as I dislike to categorise people using astrology and other systems, understanding this split thing helped me understand my...

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