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Hot coals

Some people in your life are going to be like hot coals. They will burn the edges of your wings. They will ⠀ leave marks on your feet. They will leave a few holes in your heart. ⠀ ⠀ It will take some time to come back to your fullness after such encounters. It will hurt. It will take time to ⠀ heal. It will take time to forgive yourself for getting addicted to something that was destructive. It will take ⠀ time to not cringe upon hearing their name. ⠀ ⠀ But later, once you’ve licked your...

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Hot coals

Some people in your life are going to be like hot coals. They will burn the edges of your wings. They will ⠀ leave marks on your feet. They will leave a few holes in your heart. ⠀ ⠀ It will take some time to come back to your fullness after such encounters. It will...

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The nice

I used to do everything I could to avoid conflict. I valued external harmony so much, so often it would come at expense of my internal harmony and integrity. It never felt right, I felt tortured on the inside. But I still was doing everything I could to put others...

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I am more me when I’m with you

I’ve been reflecting on how different I am while in a relationship vs while single. I am a split definition in Human Design, and as much as I dislike to categorise people using astrology and other systems, understanding this split thing helped me understand my...

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Inner man and his maturity (or lack of thereof)

Since I posted about all my kick ass projects, I have received some feedback. Many people expressed admiration. And a few real honest ones expressed... intimidation. A man friend said: “I would never come close to someone like you. You are too challenging. Because my...

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Why relationships don’t flow

I haven’t had many significant intimate relationships with women, and in those that I had I’ve always played the alpha role. I’ve been the more experienced one, and naturally that would put me more into my masculine energy. I would make decisions, offer direction to...

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Why your cock is your best friend

Why your cock is your best friend? Your cock is your power centre, the positive pole of your body, according to Taoism. You are actually penetrating the world with your cock. Your relationship with your cock may...

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Why all women need to connect with their vaginas

Yoni is the Sanskrit name for female genitalia. It also means the sacred temple, the gateway to the Universe and the Source. When we hear people speak about feminine empowerment, there are so many concepts around...

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Priestess State & How to serve Truth

Priestess is not a title or a superior position. Priestess refers to a state of alignment. Just like the word “Goddess” and the word “Tantra”, the word “Priestess” is largely being misused. This happens when people that have only limited understanding and awareness of...

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How to attract a partner

If only the “spiritual” women had a clue of how deeply manipulation is engrained in their system, they’d understand why no “spiritual” man sticks around. You can actually use certain techniques to attract a partner. But the problem is unless you are really clear...

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Find the heat in your belly

Most people have a tendency to hold on. To what? To everything! To the unresolved issues with other people, to the past, to they pain and wounds, to dreams and expectations, to an unhealthy self image, to an idea of their own unworthiness... I think this happens...

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“You make me happy”

“You make me happy” - some of the most dangerous words anyone can say. When you see someone you love and your whole being lights up.... your face softens automatically and you feel so happy to have their arms around you. All you want is this, and more of this... Then,...

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Divine Eros and discovering the Divine in the Eros

For many people it is a mystery how these two words can even be put together. Eros is perceived as something of lower nature, when Divine is… well, Divine. High. Superhuman… Yet, in reality the nature of Eros is Divine. In order to discover it we have to reveal all...

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Dealing with fear

Ever wondered how to deal with fear? The first thing is to actually acknowledge the fear. Many people try to just avoid it, but it’s not the way. We need to find the warrior inside. The one who feels the fear and does what has to be done anyway. I love to jump from...

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Why you must thrive

Many people have a tendency to become really affected by the behaviour of their partners. For simplicity it’s called co-dependency. So here’s a download for everyone who’s interested in shifting this old unnecessary pattern: Your life has to be so awesome and you need...

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Who is in your field?

When I start connecting intimately with someone I like to know who they were connecting with before me. If I have met any of those people I try to reach out to them. I am well aware that it’s not something that’s common in our society. Quite the opposite tends to...

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Eros is the energy of life

Eros is the energy of life. Orgasm is the flower of life. The biggest reason for lack of orgasm (I mean real deep tantric orgasm) is the ideas we have about what is an orgasm. The degree and depth of your orgasm depends on how open you are to life. I also see a direct...

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The Grand Acceptance

Accepting something sounds pretty simple, but is it, really? Accepting when life just doesn’t go the way you were absolutely certain it would, when what you thought was a bright destiny dissolves into murky waters... Accepting when someone makes a choice that goes...

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When life gets foggy

Sometimes you walk into a fog. You adapt real quick and don’t notice when the fog gets real think... Naturally you think that that’s how reality is - you move with it, you don’t even question. You’re just doing your thing You keep walking through the fog. Maybe from...

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What is the Tantra thing about?

Most people completely misunderstand Tantra. The misconceptions are understandable. As soon as we open the door to sexual energy, we open the door to something incredibly powerful and incredibly intense. This intensity makes it very hard to stay on the tiger. It’s...

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Slutty, guilty or traumatised?

Guilt is the most problematic part of trauma healing. Deep down there is often found a part of the victim that enjoyed the act of what happened. And it is extremely hard to accept that part. However that is what promotes healing like nothing else. Controversial... To...

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