More developed feminine energy equals higher emotional intelligence.

More developed feminine energy equals higher emotional intelligence.

I used to get frustrated when Oliver wouldn’t initiate challenging conversations or take the lead in moments of tension between us. I though that because he is a man he had to be the one breaking the ice.

What I’ve come to realise is that he doesn’t have to do ANYTHING.

And all my “has to” demands were nothing but my inner Princess looking to delegate her responsibility to the one I love the most.

In reality we all have equal responsibility and it is this:

*Respond * within our *ability * in every given moment.

If you are the one noticing disharmony and it is bothering you, sitting around and reaching boiling point on the inside waiting until he makes the move is subtle manipulation that can even turn into passive aggression.

“But doesn’t it put me into my masculine?” – I hear you asking.

Those of us who have more developed feminine energy (often times that’s women) have greater emotional intelligence. Many men grew up being told that boys don’t feel – “boys don’t cry”. Some men do have a high emotional intelligence and they may be able to pick up on disharmony sooner than women.

In the end – it really doesn’t matter.

All you have to do is see your part and take responsibility for unfreezing yourself as soon as possible.

Because it’s your heart that’s frozen.

It’s your job to melt it and let your heart shine.

Share your feelings.

Take responsibility for your part.

Share your longings in love.

Nothing more. Nothing less.

Your Life will never be the same.

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