Why we attract unavailable partners

You know, life is always giving you situations that you are ready for and when you are bringing into your reality partners that are unavailable for what you want… it means that your soul has chosen that in order to heal and clear away a pattern that is no longer serving you.

The first relationships we had were the ones with our caretakers. Parts of these relationships will be mirrored in the adult relationships with our partners, if we don’t heal our past.

From the standpoint of a child everything that happens happens because of the child.

Children often blame themselves for anything painful that happens in their lives especially if the situation was not clearly explained and the repair didn’t happen.

For example if a parent was not emotionally available or even left, a child may internalize it as: “he left because I did something wrong”.
Or: “she was not emotionally present with me because she must not love me enough because I am not worthy or lovable enough”.

In our adult relationships we end up subconsciously seeking the same dynamic that took place in the relationship with our parents.

And we sure do attract it.

We do that because on subconscious level:
1. it gives us a sense of safety, because it feels familiar.
2. in order to HEAL IT.

✧ 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝗶𝘁. ✧

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