Are you letting him in?
Taking care of him, reaching out to him, cooking for him, giving him advice, putting on your sexy lingerie for him…
Many women think that that’s what makes men fall in love with them. But time and time again they see that it doesn’t work.
It doesn’t work because trying to catch him only puts you in your masculine energy. And that’s not attractive for a man in his masculine energy.
▵ Many women operate predominantly in the masculine energy. They are so used to it so they bring this attitude to their intimate relationships too.
From this space they can only attract men who operate predominantly in their feminine energy.
They are very sensitive, they change their minds frequently, they are incapable of commitment, generally confused, not firmly established in themselves.
Then these women complain that there are no real men around.
▵ But real men are all around.
The question is: do we allow men to be men?
Now, there is nothing wrong for women to be in their masculine and for men to be in their feminine. In fact, it is absolutely crucial to develop both sides within to be whole.
But when it comes to relationships, we need to choose which polarity we want to embody.
What is our happy place when it comes to intimacy.
▿For most women I know it is their feminine.
They want to be held, adored and claimed, they want to shine, they want to open…
So… why do so many women not behave from their feminine?
For various reasons, but mostly because of not being at ease with all that comes with being in the feminine…
Mainly – the vulnerability of your heart.
♛ To be in your feminine you have to feel and listen to your heart all-the-time.
And when you start really feeling your heart things may get raw and messy. Other times – so magnificent it’s overwhelming…
How to return to the feminine heart?
It’s not about anything additional that we need to do.
It’s way deeper than that.
My Program Come, my Love was created to dive deep into the Medicine of the Feminine Heart.
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