Boldly expressing yourself

We all want harmony. We all want connection. And even if some people may tell you otherwise, it always hurts to be misunderstood and disliked.

Yet… it’s NOT a reason to keep quiet and hold back your authentic expression, your unique personal approach to life and your charisma. ✨

⚡️Truth is: When you are bold in expressing yourself, some people are not going to like it.

But the question is: who’s opinion are you really concerned about?

Typically when we get deeply impacted by someone’s opinion, it is not this particular person’s opinion that hurts, but what meaning we give to it.

We are conditioned to subconsciously connect experiences we have now with the past wounds.

For example, when I feel hurt by being misunderstood, I know it is not this particular person’s opinion that’s hurting me. What really hurts is the memory of not being understood by my father in my childhood. 💔

Even though I have an incredible relationship with my dad, I still carry memory of my childhood wounds.
This is totally natural. What matters is how I hold myself through it now, being a mature adult.

⚡️The other part of this truth is: When you are bold in expressing yourself, Your people are going to Love it!
They will feel that what makes you unique, and that’s exactly what makes you stand out in the crowd and that’s exactly why people want to work with you!

There are thousands of ways to say the same thing.

Sometimes you’ll say it in an edgy way and it won’t feel aligned for you. 🙄
Other times you’ll say it in a sharp way and it will feel aligned. 😎
Other times you’ll water it down and realise that you’ve been playing small.🫣

And you know what: In the grand scheme of things…it doesn’t matter all that much.

Life is your playground.
So you may as well… PLAY!💃

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