Most people think that lovemaking requires a hard lingam.⠀
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As soon as the man is no longer erect most couples end the lovemaking. Of course if he ejaculated he will have the refractory period as there is a loss of energy. Normally men would require a period of rest.⠀
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But if he didn’t ejaculate and the lingam is soft – is it a sign to stop?⠀
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My invitation is to reframe the idea that to make love the man needs to be hard.⠀
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My invitation is to learn to trust the intelligence of the body. When the lingam becomes soft don’t label it as a failure or end.⠀
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Stay with it and find new ways of making love. ⠀
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Find the edge that this softness is inviting you to. ⠀
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Feel the vulnerability of it. ⠀
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It is the soft heart that allows a soft cock. ⠀
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But can you handle the intensity of the soft heart?⠀
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This is when things get really wild!⠀
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Both partners need to be willing to dive into this exploration.⠀
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It takes a yoni that is awake and activated to recognize the pleasure in subtlety. It takes a yoni that is nourished to be able to really embrace and fully welcome a lingam.⠀
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And in that – profound healing happens. ⠀
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A healing that extends way beyond your bedroom. ⠀
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A healing that extends into the world, and how the Masculine and Feminine meet. ⠀
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Where the warriors can soften their brave hearts. ⠀
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And the priestesses can expand into a space of safety and love that is beyond ordinary.⠀
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As we show up for each other, and touch each other with kindness, we become healers for each other, healers for this world. ⠀
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Just like in ancient days the High Priests and High Priestesses would come together to awaken the light within each other. ⠀
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Because we have always known, that we can never shine alone.⠀
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We can only shine together, rising as a whole.⠀
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To have guidance and support as you are unleashing your power – I’d love you to join Activated Woman or Activated Man masterclass.⠀
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