A month ago we weren’t sure if we were going to stay together.
We encountered a breaking point… and from there on things couldn’t stay the same. There were just two options in front of us: we were to either break apart or break through.
Although deep down I knew we were nowhere near completion, I had to let everything go and surrender to the fact that I was not in control – yet deeply trusting that whichever way things would go, it would be for the highest benefit of us both.
And so… we took the decision to give it our all. To truly look at what is going on on as many levels as we could fathom…
Turns out, during the last 3,5 years we have only been scratching the surface…
When I let all my resistance drop… I realised that this very resistance used to be my point of no return in all my previous relationships. This time… having dared to lean in… I see that it took many years and a lot of work… to build the resilience and be able to face what has opened up for me as I am being held in the safety and depth of our Union.
We are so quick to draw conclusions… But what if… there is a whole other level of depth to our current experience that won’t reveal itself until we recommit to our hearts?…
On the other side of it – I am in awe.
Life keeps fascinating me.
There is always more to Her.
The stuff that opens up for us in the process of relating with another, will never open up in a solo journey. We need the mirror of another to keep weaving our Dharmic threads. This is why the path of Tantra historically has been seen as the most challenging one. And – the one that offers a truly fast track to complete recognition of our true nature.
I am celebrating how far we’ve come…individually and together.
Because surrender into the Fire of Love… is no joke.
Here is to the new chapter of this Sacred Union.
Here is to the ever deepening surrender to that which breathes us all and that has many names… but the most beautiful of them is Love.
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