The deepest orgasms come when you let go of the need to have an orgasm at all

The deepest orgasms come when you let go of the need to have an orgasm at all.

The best lovers are the ones who let go of trying to be a great lover.

Being a Great Lover has nothing to do with knowing a sx technique.

A Great Lover is someone who is total in their loving.

It is someone who approaches love making as the most sacred thing.

It is someone who knows how to be present with themselves and their partner and follow the simple truth of the moment.

A Great Lover is someone who has done the inner work of releasing sexual shame.

A Great Lover is someone who doesn’t try to please or impress.

A Great Lover is someone who goes into sx with a full yes.

And the biggest secret to being a Great Lover is doing what YOU really love and want to do.

When you do what you really love doing you are going to be amazing at it for sure.

There is just no other way.

And, yes, this applies to everything in Life.

A Great Lover knows that one can never fulfil another person.

The best you can do is through being fulfilled yourself invite them into discovering their own pleasure.

This is the real magic that a Great Lover has to offer:

through the portal of your own shameless pleasure you are helping your loved one to be free.