If your body is not willing to open to lovemaking it is giving you a signal that you should not ignore.
Lack of sex is always just a symptom, not the root cause.
One of the most common root causes is unresolved issues with your partner.🤐
If in the space between you there is anything that is unresolved, unaddressed, unacknowledged…
If you are holding onto something that happened between you and your partner, something that hurt you and you didn’t express or didn’t feel heard in… there will be a tight spot in your heart. 💔
It just won’t let your body fully open.
That will impact your desire, and rightfully so.
You have to have that honest conversation.
You have to address that pain.
By hiding you are withholding your heart.❤️🩹
You may also have unresolved issues with your ex, or any other person with whom you were intimate.
For those who were sexually abused there likely will be a deep mistrust in men as such. It may also be the case if your mother or even grandmother was abused. Issues may run deep and may need serious inner work.
These issues create knots in our hearts.
It is possible and important to undo these knots. In fact it is a holy work of love.
I am not saying any of this lightly.
This is an invitation to go deep.
Yes, it may bring up stuff that you would rather not see.
But, my darling, you didn’t come here to live a mediocre life.
Deep down you know that as long as you are withholding your truth, you are living only in part, not fully.
It’s ok if you are not ready for it now, you may need to first build more resilience before addressing some things. You may desire extra support of a mentor who can go deeper with you before you are ready to address these things with your partner. (I often do this with my clients).
But whenever you’re ready – know that next level of your Love and Life is just around the corner 👑
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