Masculine sexual energy is like fire. Feminine sexual energy is like water.
Where do we meet?
🔥 Masculine sexual energy is like fire, it ignites in the center (the penis) and spreads out after that.
💦 Feminine sexual energy is like water – it is collected from the edges, the limbs, from the heart and flows to the centre (the yoni).
The lingam (the penis) can be touched without much foreplay. It is actually very nice to connect with the lingam first and then continue by spreading the pleasure and activating his chest, belly and limbs.
In women the yin energy proceeds from the edges gradually moving inward and flowing downward towards the sex center. The yin energy needs to pass through the heart center before it descends lower.
That’s why women find it generally harder to separate sex from love.
MOST WOMEN NEED TO FEEL CONNECTED AND SAFE BEFORE THEY CAN OPEN UP.
Which is not always the case for men or someone in their masculine energy. They can have sex with someone without much of an emotional or heart connection.
Yoni and heart are similar — neither can be forced to open. You can’t force yourself to fall in love, and you can’t open your body by force.
So naturally it means that women take longer than men to get aroused. But once you heat the water up it can stay hot for a long time.
Also the more frequently you bring her erotic energy to the boil, the easier it will be to get her hot tomorrow!
Tantra is the tradition that honors and worships the divine feminine. And we can recognise the divine feminine in all of Life, and in women in particularly.
The shakti flows more naturally through someone who is deeply in touch with the feminine, which is often times women.
And therefore when the woman is fully aroused, once her entire body is loved and worshipped, she will open her yoni, she will be fully orgasmic, and she will share the nectar of the depth of her being with her partner. When the entire system is activated women can access amazing arousal states and discover their deep erotic nature.
Then the masculine partner will be able to ride her waves of pleasure and expand into the magnetic field of their union.
Sex is not about his or her pleasure.
It is about cultivating something that is beyond him or her, that is more than the sum of its parts… A field, that we can expand into together, and become infinitely vast.
So… the deeper he goes, the deeper she opens… it affects both.
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