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The light feminine and masculine

SHE is deeply embodied, so soft, so sensitive, sensual, and radiant… There is so much Life in her, so much pleasure, so much desire… She is both contained and expanded, subtle and dazzling. She is graceful. Elegance is how she moves. She lights up every room she shows up in. She returns everything she touches back to love. She is full of care and kindness. She opens and only opens as a response to Life… ⠀She yearns for only one thing: Love. Total, limitless, all-encompassing, absolutely...

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The light feminine and masculine

The light feminine and masculine

SHE is deeply embodied, so soft, so sensitive, sensual, and radiant… There is so much Life in her, so much pleasure, so much desire… She is both contained and expanded, subtle and dazzling. She is graceful. Elegance is how she moves. She lights up every room she shows...

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Body-centered sexual expression

Body-centered sexual expression

Some women’s sexual expression is very hot and very body-centered. These women are very exciting. They orgasm very loudly. They are very expressive. ⠀⠀For some, this looks like freedom of sexual expression, and it is so for them!⠀⠀After a while, you may recognize that...

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Let me tell you about your Yoni

Let me tell you about your Yoni

The yoni is a holy cave. She is soft. She is delicious. She is warm. She is content and complete in her most warm lusciousness. She exists for the joy of existing. She is never empty. She is always filled with light. The lingam is never apart from her, he is always in...

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Love over Fear

Love over Fear

For this Planet to survive we have to choose love over fear, again and again. ⠀⠀Our fear of love is what has been killing our Planet. We’ve become so numb we don’t feel that when trees are being chopped down it’s our children who are being killed. It is lack of love...

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There is a feminine way of leading men

There is a feminine way of leading men

A woman in her masculine energy can say things like: “Sure, we can just be sex buddies, I don’t get so emotionally involved”.   Which in 99,9% of cases is a LIE.   A women’s body is designed in a way that when her Yoni opens to someone, her heart opens too.   Yes, she...

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Do we allow men to be men?

Do we allow men to be men?

Many women behave predominantly from the masculine energy. They are so used to it so they bring this attitude to their intimate relationships too.   They are used to initiating contact, providing direction, offering solutions to problems, controlling emotions,...

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The reason why women don’t get what they want from men

The reason why women don’t get what they want from men

In short: Because you put up with what you don’t want. Why do you do this? Because you are infected, sis. You’ve fallen victim to a global pandemic. A REALLY dangerous one. It is called: disconnection from who you are.   Low self worth is the result of that. Not...

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Do you LOVE your partner’s genitals?

Do you LOVE your partner’s genitals?

If you don’t, it means you don’t fully love either your partner OR yourself. Our genitals are where our body begins. Our genitals are what determines our sexual essence. Our human essence. Our genitals need to be loved and acknowledged for what they are. To me cock is...

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Woman comes first

Woman comes first

In giving herself to the act of love woman can remember what her soul knows beyond intellect. She meets her bigger Self through the ecstasy of Love.⠀ ⠀ Subconsciously a man knows that in their merging she can transmit to him her feminine wisdom and awaken his heart...

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To the Force that Saved my Life

To the Force that Saved my Life

Sacred union with a beloved is only possible from a space of freedom. ⠀ ⠀ True freedom is an internal quality. Freedom is not possible without courage. For some people this courage will look like madness. For the happy few who’ve tasted this freedom… there is simply...

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Yin+Yang = Alchemy

Yin+Yang = Alchemy

Next time you are with your beloved and things are getting hot 🔥 and steamy 💦 instead of jumping right into the fire, try opening to the electrical tingling sensation of vibrant life energy.⠀ ⠀ This vibrancy can be extracted from erotic energy and...

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Prayer

Prayer

In the sparkly embrace of our souls⠀ Since our very first earthly meeting⠀ We dance⠀ ⠀ It is a fine dance,⠀ A dance of a delectable sensual embrace,⠀ A dance of simplicity and joy of recognition.⠀ ⠀ At times, it makes us spin through galaxies, ⠀ so cosmic...⠀ At...

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Awakening through death

Awakening through death

August, 23 2008. ⠀ I was partying all night, at sunrise I made it home, not feeling proud of myself. I took a shower and went to bed. At around midday I wake up from a phone call. It’s the flatmate of my best friend, he never calls me. ⠀ ⠀ I pick up: “Hey Sofia,...

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Time to remember

Time to remember

We are in global pain, as humanity.⠀ ⠀ This pain is not new, but finally everyone is becoming aware of it.⠀ ⠀ Pain in itself is not bad. Pain doesn’t equal suffering.⠀ ⠀ Pain is an invitation to focus on what needs to be done.⠀ ⠀ Childbirth is accompanied by a lot of...

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Love in the times of corona

Love in the times of corona

Maybe you are happy to be together with your intimate partner now and are taking time to nourish your bubble and bathe in its sweetness. ⠀ ⠀ Maybe you feel total absence of sex drive. Maybe you feel guilty or ashamed because of it.⠀ ⠀ Maybe you don’t have a partner...

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Beloved Man

Beloved Man

I’ve been deeply moved each time you’ve showed up in front of me revealing your naked heart. ⠀ ⠀ I’ve felt honoured each time you’ve opened and trusted me to be a safe space to put your weapons down.⠀ ⠀ I am sorry for all the times I could not truly see and appreciate...

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Inviting your partner into their heart

Inviting your partner into their heart

Any woman who chooses to be in a predominantly feminine energy mode in a relationship (and life) has an incredible superpower.⠀ ⠀ She can create a safe space for her partner to open his heart. ⠀ ⠀ *Note: I am referring to heterosexual relationships here (and in much...

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It is not about you

It is not about you

I’ll share a win with you. I once got very upset about something my lover at that time did. It was so painful I was burning on the inside. I had so many thoughts in my mind: “how could he do this! I want to leave! I want him to leave! I don’t want to know him! All...

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Death and love

Death and love

Yet another flight, however for a moment I thought it was going to be the last one. I witnessed myself breathing deeper and thinking: “If this is it... I thank you life. I have loved. I am ready to go.” And in case I go, I ask my loved ones to not make a big deal out...

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Your “no” protects you from being pulled on energetically

Your “no” protects you from being pulled on energetically

To those tender people who have a hard time saying “no” .... I get it. I get that you really love harmony. I get that you hate upsetting people. I get that you have had experiences in the past that taught you that each time you don’t do what is asked/expected from...

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I care about you enough to express how I feel

I care about you enough to express how I feel

I didn’t grow up having permission to express how I felt or knowing how to express myself at all. All I knew was that when mum got upset she would yell at me. So, very early on I started feeling that emotions were unsafe. Emotional intelligence is not something we are...

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