RELATIONSHIPS

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Hot coals

Some people in your life are going to be like hot coals. They will burn the edges of your wings. They will ⠀ leave marks on your feet. They will leave a few holes in your heart. ⠀ ⠀ It will take some time to come back to your fullness after such encounters. It will...

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The nice

I used to do everything I could to avoid conflict. I valued external harmony so much, so often it would come at expense of my internal harmony and integrity. It never felt right, I felt tortured on the inside. But I still was doing everything I could to put others...

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I am more me when I’m with you

I’ve been reflecting on how different I am while in a relationship vs while single. I am a split definition in Human Design, and as much as I dislike to categorise people using astrology and other systems, understanding this split thing helped me understand my...

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Inner man and his maturity (or lack of thereof)

Since I posted about all my kick ass projects, I have received some feedback. Many people expressed admiration. And a few real honest ones expressed... intimidation. A man friend said: “I would never come close to someone like you. You are too challenging. Because my...

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Why relationships don’t flow

I haven’t had many significant intimate relationships with women, and in those that I had I’ve always played the alpha role. I’ve been the more experienced one, and naturally that would put me more into my masculine energy. I would make decisions, offer direction to...

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How to attract a partner

If only the “spiritual” women had a clue of how deeply manipulation is engrained in their system, they’d understand why no “spiritual” man sticks around. You can actually use certain techniques to attract a partner. But the problem is unless you are really clear...

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Find the heat in your belly

Most people have a tendency to hold on. To what? To everything! To the unresolved issues with other people, to the past, to they pain and wounds, to dreams and expectations, to an unhealthy self image, to an idea of their own unworthiness... I think this happens...

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“You make me happy”

“You make me happy” - some of the most dangerous words anyone can say. When you see someone you love and your whole being lights up.... your face softens automatically and you feel so happy to have their arms around you. All you want is this, and more of this... Then,...

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Why you must thrive

Many people have a tendency to become really affected by the behaviour of their partners. For simplicity it’s called co-dependency. So here’s a download for everyone who’s interested in shifting this old unnecessary pattern: Your life has to be so awesome and you need...

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Who is in your field?

When I start connecting intimately with someone I like to know who they were connecting with before me. If I have met any of those people I try to reach out to them. I am well aware that it’s not something that’s common in our society. Quite the opposite tends to...

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What is the Tantra thing about?

Most people completely misunderstand Tantra. The misconceptions are understandable. As soon as we open the door to sexual energy, we open the door to something incredibly powerful and incredibly intense. This intensity makes it very hard to stay on the tiger. It’s...

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Are you trapped in karmic relationships?

Who doesn’t love the natural high we get when we fall in love…? However here is something you need to know: the really intense relationships, with passionate feelings and regular major pushes and pulls and ups and downs usually have a karmic nature. What is karma? The...

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Heart-gasm

My arms, my whole chest is tingling. The amount of love I feel for you is bursting from every pore, from the very core of me, in the very core of my heart I feel you. In the very core of your heart I feel me. The waves of orgasmic pleasure emerge from the Center of my...

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Fear of Going Deeper

He walked in and sat next to me. “I am scared,” - he said. “I really want a deep relationship, but I’m so scared. Once we start going deeper, I pull away and reject the woman, all because I’m so fucking scared that I will open my heart to her and then she will leave...

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Ghosting

When I was 19 I broke up with my boyfriend over an online messenger. For over a month I was moving away from him, deep down knowing that I was over him but hoping that he would just get it and I wouldn’t need to explain anything. I just wanted him to let me go and...

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Best Tantric positions for love making

I was interviewed for a popular magazine recently and they asked me to name the two best positions for Tantric sex for heterosexual couples. I offered three. There are positions that allow very deep penetration. For example, when the woman places her legs on the...

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When people don’t show up the way you want them to

Is there someone in your life who is not showing up for you in the way you’d like them to? It usually hurts a lot because it feels like that person is behaving in this way because they don’t like you enough. In fact it usually hurts like hell because somewhere deep...

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Surrendering to the mystery of existence

I once had a really profound experience through being rejected by someone I was really attracted to. I tried everything on him. All my seduction tricks. I tried being very sweet. I tried being very expressive and sexy. I tried cornering him and demanding a date. I was...

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Ask and you shall receive – “Liberation” for your ears!

My bestselling book Liberation Into Orgasm, that was published in April last year, is an invitation to go on a journey that will take you through pleasure beyond pleasure. This book is not just a bunch of nice ideas that are only good for the mind, it is an invitation...

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Why you should not demand honesty from your partner

If you are constantly wondering if your partner is hiding something, or if they are lying or cheating, it doesn’t say much about them, but it says a lot about you. Unless you are with a totally misguided person who doesn’t really want to be with you, in most cases...

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